The Forever Changing College Relationships

First off before I start this blog post, Happy Halloween! For those of you that celebrate Halloween that is. While everyone is out probably doing some fun Halloween things, I'm sitting in my dorm. It's like 10 at night here, almost 11. There is a Halloween party going on, but I don't have a costume, and frankly, I'm too lazy to do anything. That and the fact that I have a chemistry exam on Friday.

 

But moving on, that's not necessarily the point of this blog post. The point is to talk about the ever changing college relationships that happen. No, nothing has really been happening between me and the international kid I like, although I have been seeing him a little bit more than usual lately, and the other guy. Although, the other guy is slightly involved in all of this, but it's not necessarily him that we're talking about.

 

In the beginning, when I went to orientation, I made a couple of new friends. Later, these friends decided to met up at the mall where I met a couple of more people. The person in question that I'm speaking about is one of those people that I met at the mall. Sure, it's not bad, and actually now, I barely even speak to any of those people that I made friends with at orientation and the people that I made friends with within the first two weeks of college. It's funny how life changes, isn't it?

 

So now I rarely speak to them, and with some it's just because I started making friends on the floor and then with others, like the one girl in question, it's sort of like...she's annoying.

 

I guess there's really no nice way to put it, she's annoying and that's it. I don't know what else to say besides that and frankly it's the truth.

 

When we first met at the mall, everything was okay and I actually thought that she was a pretty nice girl, not that she isn't nice, but slowly over time, she started to get annoying. Somehow the sound of her laugh began to get annoying and then the sound of her voice, too. Somehow the way that she started commanding people around was annoying and in the end, I stopped talking to her. Now, I don't even ackowledge her presence and she doesn't to mine.

 

Now you're probably wondering where does the other guy that all of my friends back home thought I was dating comes to play in this. Well, I think she likes him. Now, I frankly don't care whether she likes him or not, that's not my business, but...I don't know. Somehow the thought bothers me a little bit. Maybe it's just because I've been hearing her voice and laughter in my hallway more often since that's where the guy lives, in my hallway. She lives in an adjacent hallway, but not that close.

 

I don't know. It's not like I necessarily like the guy, at least I don't think that I like him, but I mean...I don't know, it somehow bothers me a little bit. I don't know, frankly, I'm kind of confused on even why it bothers me... who knows...

 

But friendships in college, they will always change. The people that I was close with before I barely speak to now and the people that I barely spoke to before I know am sort of close friends with. I actually wouldn't really say close friends, but we're somewhat good friends. I don't know, things are just...things can change a lot in college and I'm sure that they'll change in the future.

 

Well, that's all I have for this post. Maybe I'll write another one if something interesting happens. Right now, nothing interesting is really happening.

 

Oh, I did register my classes for the winter term, though. My schedule isn't the worst, but it isn't the greatest. Stupid labs. If only the labs didn't exist then I would have a pretty good schedule...but the labs only run every other week, so that's good. At least I think that's good.

 

Anyway, enough of me babbling. Have a good morning/afternoon/night. 

 

Goodbye! :)

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