What should I do ?

Guys I'm having this major love problem and idk what should I do ! So heres the thing I've been in love with this awesome cool popular guy and I told my best which happened to be his friend so he told him but there hadn't been any reaction from him and then he will always look at me and all and glare when I do any skin ship with anyone ! I didn't care but them my best sets me in a lunch date with him and he said he's shy with me but agreed and when we were walking together to the canteen he dragged all of his friends saying he's shy !!!..... My best got angry and talked to him and I was left out so my other best took me saying I shouldn't force myself on anyone after that HE got mad and angry because we didn't do that date thingy ! And idk why I mean he doesn't love me or like me or care !!! After that he continued that staring ,thing and somehow the thing spread in the school and my friends started teasing me for that ! I was ok with it until one of them came and screamed his name while saying Mariah loves u and it was soo embarrassing if u ask me ! After that felt everyone is forcing him on me and all and I'm soo humiliated ! I just don't understand him or anything neither do I know what should I do ? I'm in pain ? What should I do guys ?? Help me !! T.T

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marshmellowcakes #1
Just ignore the people that tease you. It's stupid. If you actually really like him the who cares about other peoples' opinion. And if it gets really annoying tell them to piss off. You should just ask him why he keeps giving you these glares and confront him. Maybe you'll get closer that way? Make sure of what he feels and don't let your feelings get manipulated by everyone's forcing (peer pressure). Better to confirm things then leave them unknown. Even if he doesn't like you, at least you gave it ago. Make it so you don't regret things. :)
babyjoonie0912 #2
Well.. I did have a crush in elementary school and middle school but trust me I don't find any truthful guys yet!! I swear I don't trust guys so much since I have a friend who's 18 and she's _______ pregnant for about seven months now!! Shocking huh?

She's already graduated from high school but doesn't go to college yet since she's preg.. Also she's living with her boyfriend but IDK.. Her life is screwd up since she doesn't know who the father is!!
babyjoonie0912 #3
Aww... This reminds of my best frineds situation right now.. Well she has a crush at work but she's having hard time to approach him since the guy's also shy.. I think her employees trying to hook both up but when she told me it sounded like they were teasing her.. like what you've said.. But I hope you'll be okay soon!! And yeah don't fall into his trap!!
bakaneko
#4
it's childish with this screaming name thingy. like, really really immature. the guy you like can as well want to make fun of you. don't want to be mean, but seriously girl, i went through it all and it isn't a good memory. act normal, i guess. maybe he likes you too and you two will get along. just don't act stupid so you won't embarrass yourself and maybe everything will turn out well ;). wish you luck.
HantienJelly
#5
I'm just a bit confused hete because you just said that the guy doesn't like you at all, but ife he doesn't like you why will he agree to have a date with you? Maybe he's just shy or maybe he's just playing around. Well, if you have the courage to face him then do it so you clear the issue between the two of you. As for your classmates, just don't mind them. Everytime that they will tease you, act normal and smile. Show them that you're not affected because the more you show them that you're humiliated and affected then they will never stop teasing you. Maybe you can raised your eyebrow and tell them "So what if I like him? The hell do you care? Are you jealous because I don't like you?", just to shut them up

Just act normal when dealing with the guy. Don't be affected because of him because if you do you can never forget him and you will never move forward, you'll be stuck in your position forever. Love is really complicated, just be positive and don't stress yourself because of them. You're just making yourself ugly because of them. Just be happy and don't mind them because they will eventually stop teasing you if they see that you no longer care about that boy. Just take it as a funny and very weird experience in falling in love so that whenever you remember it you will just end up laughing and not crying ok?
fangirl4ever
#6
I personally don't know. If I where you I would never have told anyone that I liked that boy especially to people who know him cause people gossip and this fact you learned the hard way. Just ignore , if I were you I would say '' I was just joking , why did you take it so seriously.'' or maybe you could just fall out of love from him - just ignore him.
But this is something I would have done , this varies for person to person and since I do not really know much of your personallity I can't tell you much other than the fact what I would have done.