Please read and give me advices...

So, I have 2 best friends that I can trust with everything with all my heart.

 

And one of them--- named C. Started to text and call and talk to my cruch eversince I told her that I liked him.

 

Then, they were acting so suspicious while like they are always together and apart.

 

So today, I went to this one place for a concert-- and C wasn't there. But my crush was... (I liked and still am for 2 years...)

 

Then after that we went to Applebees.. Then we started to kind of compare people... and like by who was pretty and such.

 

So at fist there were these two 6th graders and of course he had to pick one or the other so he just picked one. Then he had to choose from my other 2 best friends that I just kid around with, and Y won.

 

Then it was the 2 best friends that I can trust with all my heart. And C won.

 

So I was like kay, that okay.

 

Then she kept on winning to all these really pretty and gorgeous looking girls! So I was like what the heck---

 

Then there was 2 girls left. C and this other girl that like freaking super duper gorgeous and pretty.No affence and she is my friend but compare to the girl that C was competing with C is ugly. lolll.. but yeah.

 

And then I told him that if he chooses C then he is blind. lol

so he picked the other girl.

 

And then I was like do you like C? And he didn't deny or admit it... So I was like what the heck...

 

And then C was acting weird around me and I was like do you like my crush and she was like denying to harshly (?) because you know how sometimes people are like oh no I didn't do it but they really did.. So yeah, and I told my mom, she said you are too young to be crying over boys right now. and focus on studying. so yeah.. please give me advice. on how to handle this... -________-

I love you alll(:

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GRANDJIMIN #1
Man, I hate when I have a crush on the same guy my best friend likes.
And honestly, I 35% agree with your mom. We are young for this bull crap. But hey, we're human at the same time.
Besides that, I'll just try to help you to the best of my ability based on my own knowledge. I once had a crush on the same guy as my best friend (naming her A). And right now, I have a crush on a guy that my other best friend (naming her Z) thinks is cute. But before, when me and A had a crush on the same guy, we were somewhat torn. It led to the point where she decided to give up on him for my own sake.
Liking the same guy your best friend likes is never really a good thing. It can really break your guys' friendship.
And what I'm assuming based on your blog post, maybe your crush and best friend actually like each other. And if they do, and if you really do love your best friend, then it would be the "better" choice to let them be, to let them like each other if they do. It's okay to feel jealous, if you do. It's okay to feel angry towards the both of them, if you do. It's okay to feel uncomfortable, if you do. If your best friend and crush like each other, then it's usually best to leave them alone for the sake of your best friend.
Don't feel discouraged though. There's other guys out there that your best friend wouldn't like, for sure. Lol but yeah...
Let your best friend and crush be. If they like each other, then as the best friend and the better person, leave them be.

That's what I usually have to do. Lol or what I had to do.
I hope your best friend isn't keeping anything from you because that's not fair also especially since she knows that you like him. And I hope that you'll be okay.
If anything, remain close with your best friend. No guy is worth an amazing friendship.
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