These types of situations are never easy to go through, and it sounds like your friends went to one place together while you went to a different place alone. The same thing happened to my friends and I. They were with each other and I was alone. Our relationship did change, but we are all still the very best of friends.

The only advice I can give you is to talk to them about it. Tell them how you feel - but don't blame them for the change. Tell them that you feel lonely now, that you don't want to drift apart from each other, but that you're hurting because of how lonely you feel. Let them know you feel left behind.

Also, as you go through this you will change as well. You might not realize yet, but for your friends you are probably changing too. So right now you also need to be patient with them. When I went through the same thing I had to force myself to ask questions about the people I didn't know. I had to make an effort to enter their new world a little bit more.

This kind of separation isn't easy to go through, I almost lost my friends because of it too, but as long as both sides are willing to put in the effort to make it work then things will turn out for the best.

I wish you luck, and if you ever have more questions or just need someone to talk to about it all: I am here.

Well In my opinion I have 2 advice
1st is If they forget about you so easily they are not true friends
2nd Even they are like that They still care for you and better talk to them in private before Misunderstanding something and u might lose your friendship ~

well i don't think there's a tough problem to that? maybe they're just they're just excited to tell you the new people in their lives and so don't you think you should do it vice versa? i assume you just graduated from grade school, mid or hs so i think you have new friends too?
look here, me and my friends do that, i tell them about my new friends, they tell me their new friends too and in that way at least somehow i know who they're hanging out with. and plus, i'm friends with their friends.
and as you're saying that they're changing... people change, it's natural. it's either you adjust to them or let go of them. your choice.

Oh... I feel sorry for you ...
Best wishes ~

Oh... I feel sorry for you ...
Best wishes ~

I guess that's how life is. Cruel- I know. I would never forget my friends, no matter what. But you know, sometimes we need to let go of people, not because we don't love them or care about them anymore but because they're simply not in your life anymore.

Having friends is the best thing ever. There are good friends and not so good friends. If they forget you maybe they're not your true friends? I'm not sure, maybe they just need time to fit in with their new lifes. I'm sure you're still in their heart. So don't be that worried :)

I've had that feeling too. My family kindda moved away. And I had friends- best friends. WE were always there for each other. It's been 6 years already. I still think of them, but I know I don't mean much to them... They're haivng new friends and stuff. It's sad when 2 close friends become strangers. Like they say: Out of mind- out of sight. BUT - I guess you'll always be able to find friends, good friends. Don't give up and be sad. Everything's going to be okay :)

Best wishes <3

You're going to highschool then right?...So as an Unnie,I'll just tell you..How things might change for better or for worse.But you're already feeling down...I mean,I don't want to make you feel even more worse.However,there will also be positive stuff to it.When I graduated from junior high,I thought my friends and I will forever be friends.Unfortunetly,I was wrong.My friends and I drifted apart till we began saying "excuse me" to eachother when we were in eachother's way.I can say we aren't friends anymore,not that anything bad happened,it just happened naturally.Highschool is big and you meet a lot of people,some find new people.Almost all of my "friends" changed.The thing is though,I still have about five friends from junior highschool:).Three of them are close friends,and 2 are my best friends.Our friendship never changed,I think it really depends on the way you guys keep in contact.If you guys don't keep in touch that often,something is bound to happen.Other than 5,I still have like 3 or 2 others that I can comfortably talk to.Don't worry too much:),just keep in touch~.

Well, uhm, I'm still in uni but I guess Imma just say something anyways... because I'm bored... and I need a break from stuffing my Biology textbook down my throat.

ANYWAYS. It's normal, I guess. For friends to drift, especially when you guys are apart. To me, Uni and High School is heck different. In Highschool, we're always together, nothing can keep us apart, we sit right next to each other. Worse come to worse, we're a class away but no matter what happens, we'll still see each other after class, when school ends, or maybe even recess time.

I had a large group of close friends back in my highschool days, to be honest. Now, after 2 years, I am still friends with them, but to name those who I'm still very close with, like we're still checking up on each other everytime, almost alternate days, are only two. Two person. These two, well, they never really try to choke me with their new uni friends. We tell each other stuffs about our own lives now, but not to the point where we drown each other with each other's new lives.

And others, well, they're like your case with your friends'. They keep stuffing new s into me, almost like bragging but I guess I can't blame them. I feel like should tell them that I don't feel comfortable with it, yet, again, I feel like I shouldn't. Because it's their life. But as far as I'm concern, they're still my friends and nothing will ever change that fact. And if they really care for you as a true friend, then you shouldn't worry that much about them breaking their promise or even forgetting you. Because good friends don't easily forget one another. Right?

And I'm pretty sure the last thing they want to do is to make you feel invisible. They tell you, merely because you're their friends and they just want to fill you in with what they are doing.

But seeing how you put it, that you're still holding onto that promise, I guess you're a good friend.

Don't feel down (: