its hurts me too,specially becoz of yunjae.but when it hurts i think abt my family and my life with them and my future.there's so many things to do in life.go out with family and enjoy your life to the fullest.i know you r thinking that i dont understand,but believe me,i totally understand you.i have faced so many problem and with dbsk split i broke down.but when i think of my family,i start to think that there's nothing more than my family.i'll do anyhting to keep them smiling and to keep them smiling i ave to keep smiling too.doing this,this will automatically bring a lot of happiness and keep you out of depression.this will keep you busy.go out of the house and tour around at many places where you never had been.trust me u will start to enjoy your life again.k-pop is just an entertainment world,its nothing related to real world or the lives of the singers.nobody can control their personal lives.they can be controlled as long as they r in the entertainment world.just splitting doesnt break someone's frienship or any kind of relationship.apply your common sense.dont mix up entertainment world with real world.dbsk members all know that its all business.they can do anything for business.homin understands it totally.they know why jyj came out from dbsk.but homin decided to remain.its all business,they r not angry or like anything.they r still friends becoz homin know that jyj did that for their own benefits and they will support them if they r true friends.dont believe anything on tv,just think with your common sense!what comes first come in your mind believe that and believe in yourself!!
enjoy~^^~

hey dear, don't be too depressed, ok? There are still authors who writes about yoosu, yunjae and changmin. I'm one of them. Like you, when DBSK broke up I was down but then even though they are not together any more, I still believe that they did not loose contact with each other. I think they secretly contacted each other and they keep it as secret among them. Other people may not know what they have gone through and what they are doing but I still believe that they kept a good secret among them. That they are still in contact, that they are still best of friends, that they are still believe in each other, that they are still support each other. This is what I believe and I don't let others to make a fuss of it. I believe strongly what I want to believe and turned a deaf ears towards things that are bad about them. That is how I preventing myself from getting depressed because of DBSK. I believe you can do it as well. Fighting, chingu ah. ^^