Due to people jumping to conclusions, don't take this in a wrong way ok!? There is so much more to this and to me and I am really accepting of all types of people. 

My mind is running a mile a minute and if I don't type out my opinion right now, I will combust and get a big zit on my face from stress.

let's get to it then. 

So, as pertaining to the text-convo i was having with fx, I was like. "Are gays born that way, or is it a choice." and i had just seen this 10 minute video where this 14 year old preacher boy is talking about it. here is the link

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k8r7SoLdKd8

His opinion really got me thinking, and of course I don't agree with him about how being gay is a sin or unnatural, I agree with him on homouality being a CHOICE.

Now, here is why i think that. First off, I am like 99% sure that most children are innocent in their early stages of life and they will not have ual urges to a member of ANY . So, why would a child be "born gay" its sounds weird to me. Yes, a boy might be girly, and a girl might prefer to rough house instead of learning manners and , but that doesnt' make them gay. I soley believe being gay is a choice because it is when a child is older, possibly adolescent, and also after puberty that they decide. "Hey, I like people of the same ." 

Think of it this way, their hormones are a-raging and if you are interested in being a relationship or checking out a person in a gay-manner, it's probably because you physically want to be with them. Kissing, hand holding, cuddling, even . The physical urges are not something a child might experience. I think it's a choice later on in life, like what flavor of ice cream you prefer the most.

And, you know. The boy being girly in an earlier stage of life could be influence, higher levels of estrogen, and people tend to want to tie it in to being gay when that is not the case. If they were girly young and they end up gay, or even as a tranny, well, that's them pursuing different decisions now that they're older and it's a choice. 

Some boys might even feel girly but still really like girls. That. Is. A. Choice. 

A girl, as boyish as she might feel, will probably feel more natural pursuing girls in her later life. That is a choice.

Also, the boy in the video said that because Obama is ok with gay marriage that that means that it is making more people gay. Like they feel the security of the countrys acceptance and will let their rainbow flag fly. But I don't really agree with this.

Yes, times are changing and younger kids are showing their gay sides. But you have to understand that in other times, it wasn't generally accepted. More social exlusion was involved. So yes, there might be more OPENLY gay people now, but that doesn't mean that there wasn't any before.

I KNOW there is so much more to it but this is just a small part of an even bigger argument. I'm not trying to be scientific and I'm not trying to say this applies to everyone, I'm just trying to say that most people in this day and age have a freer choice to be gay without the fear from the past.

Everyone grows up differently, with different bodies and different DNA and different BRAINS, so this does not apply to EVERYONE