What I think when people say no kpop idol is gay

I was reading this article and this girl or guy, I don't really know was saying shipping otps and fanfics are wrong. Now I'm not saying that he/she is wrong because its an opinion, you don't have to like fanfics. But she started saying that fanfics are ruining kpop idols lives, and that thers no way they're gay. Thats when I got upset. 

One, fanfiction is just FICTION. Most idols know that, and don't have a problem with. Some joke about it, and some read it. They jnow its not real, its just the imagination of the fans. Two, it is statistically impossible for that to happen. I'm not saying ever idol is gay but some probably are, and I'm not saying every otp is real, some probably are just close friendships. But I do think that atleat some are real. And three she mentioned that they can't be real because of the homophobia in Asia. I know there is homophobia ther, but it's everywhere and tthat doesn't stop people from being gay. I know for a dact that like in America there are people excepting of Gays in Asia, and yes South Korea. Itaewon is the gay district in S.Korea. It just seems that the newer generations are more excepting. Just like here in America.

All in all I know some people don't ship otps or even like fanfics and thats fine, but don't go around opposing your opinons on me. I don't do it to you so you shouldn't do it to me. Just because I hope Eunhae is real doesn't mean that I'm destroying them and their lives. I know theres a possiblity that their only friends and I'm okay with it because its fiction.

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JisuJisu #1
Yeah i totally agree ! Some are gay . And they have to hide their uality in order for their career and their group ! :)

This is just my opinion : i thought that maybe Their group members or their CEO knows already and ask them to hide it ;3. When on camera "Fanservice" fan only think its just a close friendship or brotherhood but When off camera example at their doom ..They Love eachother openly :3 ! :D

Hope most of them are gay xD lmao
otpgirl-juliette #2
I couldn't have said it better myself. If I'm not friends with you already, I need to be.
EVFan1000 #3
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If fact they are very affectionate. When have you seen someone hand-feed someone specifically and idol?

Oh yeah... Never.

Keep in mind that both members only hand-feed each other and not other members AT ALL.
So the possibility of them being real is pretty high. Would I be happy if try were together? Yes. But that doesn't mean I'm gonna cry and sob and saying 'Why is my OTP not real!'. I would be okay if they were straight. But some people are just ignorant saying 'Oppa isn't gay'. WELL GUESS WHAT?! YOU'RE OPPA MIGHT BE GAY!

Stop being sooooo goddamn ignorant!!

And GURL! I agree with you and ur article 100%!

Toodles! <3
EVFan1000 #4
I know right?!

I mean some people are just straight up... Ugh!!! I can't even...
*calms down*

The possibility of an idol being gay is probable... Not everyone in the music industry is straight. Some are gay, but they keep that secret hidden... Especially in Asia... Like the YunJae for example. I think that the probability of them being both gay is very high. I'm not saying that they're gay but you know... It's possible.

Will it make me happy if they were real? Yes. If they weren't, I would be okay with that.

Some say 'No oops can't be gay cause he's manly!'

When you say that... That's just stereotyping. The gay man in everyone's mind is feminine and very outspoken. But the reality is that not everyone gay man on earth is like that... And this applies to Asian man as well. Some are manly, some look like a regular. So people can't base their opinion on how 'manly' someone looks.

Another fact is that when people say that 'Well oops is not gay because he described his ideal girl!'...

please... For all we know they could be lying and instead of them saying 'ideal woman' in their mind it might be 'ideal man'. For example Elton John had to hide his uality as well as Ellen DeGeneres and let's not forget Hong Suk Chun. He's a Korean actor who came out publicly in Korea and had to rebuild his career from the bottom. He's friends with Korean celebrities such as Choi Siwon and Jung Yunho and Kim Jaejoong AKA the YunJae couple!

So no. Fanfiction is not ruining idols... They could care less in my opinion. Besides, FANSERVICE is part of the job when becoming an idol... But in some cases like YunJae... It may become more than that, and it's a possibility.

FANSERVICE is when you show MORE than friendly affection to others. But Behind closed doors or when their not filming... They keep showing affection... Then this may be something more than friends.

Jaejoong and Changmin act like brothers. Manly handshakes and hugs... Jae doesn't act like that towards Yunho...
MiuNya #5
Well said. I agree with you 100%. The people who say otherwise just cant see both sides of the situation I guess.
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