them ex who message you out of the blue and greet you like nothing happened. Are men allowed to be forever clueless in things like this? I went away, you went away, disconnected from each other, and here you are posting like everything's fine and dandy. I don't need your greeting, thankyouverymuch.

But then again, me for still getting affected cause of that lame message. After years of (re)building yourself up, telling yourself that there shouldn't be any regrets for what happened in the past and convince yourself to move on with your life, you still get that pinch over something that any other person in your friend list felt obligated to do in your birthday. It's no freakin' big deal, and get over yourself. I bet he did that and forgot about it 5 minutes later and went on with his life. Why can't you do the same?