Am I wrong for not shipping Chanbaek (I mean, is there something wrong with me ?) Will it make me less of an EXO-L if I don't ship the most popular EXO ship? Cause that's how some chanbaekist makes me feel. I feel like the bad guy or a villain for not seeing Chanbaek as a romantic pair , cause I honestly don't see them that way. 

Chanbaek don't give me the same "giddy" feeling like SeBaek or Chansoo (or any other Sehun ship/yes I kinda ship Sehun with everyone...heheh) does. All these chanbaek analysis do not convince me that they're something real cause I honestly think that's just delusion on the fan's part, overanalyzing every single interactions they have. 

See, when I ship people especially idols or celebrities I don't believe they're real, even if I ship them so hard (I could only wish they are indeed real lol) , there's always limitations that I set for myself in order for me to not fall under the category of a delulu shipper. Somehow in my subconscious (?) I know there are possibilities that they are dating completely different people, so I don't assume too much otherwise I'll be sad. I ship them for fun, just like a little fantasy of mine, I won't force them to be with each other for real or make other people believe they're real cause I don't know what goes on in their lives. 

I'm writing this because I'm kinda fed up with all the delulu chanbaekist out there , especially on twitter (and other social media platforms) for attacking those who doesn't ship chanbaek instead they ship sebaek and chansoo (like me) , I mean you can't force somebody to like the same ship as you , you know? People have different preferences , so acting like shipping Baekhyun or Chanyeol with the other members are wrong is just toxic AF. 

Y'all are probably just fuming with jealousy because Sebaek and Chansoo have been having a lot of cute (and sweet) moments lately (during this comeback, and on EXO ladder season 4). 

Look, you can ship Chanbaek all you want no one's gonna stop you but don't attack other people for not liking your ship the way you do. Sometimes it seems like you're only here for shipping and not for EXO members themselves. 

For me , I don't ship them but I like their friendship and I like them as individuals. 

As for me shipping SeBaek (and maybe ChanSoo) it is because of their cute interactions with each other, I like the way Baekhyun treats Sehun, it's so lovely and sweet (the way he babies their maknae) , he always seems happy with Sehun around, it seems like he loves taking care of him , I don't care if it's brotherly love , platonically or romantically , I just like this ship (same goes to Chansoo). 

(Sorry , I don't know where this is going 😆, I just write randomly) 

Disclaimer: I don't hate Chanbaek (bro what kind of exo-l would I be if I do that? Haha) , I just don't feel like shipping them at all. 

Update: they found my post on twitter lmao (its not even a hate post cause I just said I don't ship CB) and started backstabbing me 🤣 what the hell , it ain't that deep y'all, unclench