Hello all the title might be confusing but I promise this will not be!

I see a lot of different people on here looking for specific people, doms, subs, males, females, , not , friends, etc. 

But how do I find people like me? I like things on the more extreme side, on the more taboo side, but so far I only found one person who is similar to me in our likes and dislikes with roleplaying, and I don't even know how I found them because it's been so long. I don't want to just come out and say things I like in detail, though I know it will help, I also know a lot of people are against the things I like, and I don't want this post or my account taken down over some hurt people. 

So yeah, please help me if you know anyone or are someone who likes the more extreme and extreme side of taboo- or straight the only thing i dont do is yuri ;;

Please and thank you!!