I really need help in identifying if iā€™m biual or nah

hey, im going to write this like how i normally would ask a friend.

i actually- no i mean im very confused about my uality??? am i bi?? but i like ? i like mens too?? i didnt know of if i like woman?? but i love reading about girls on girls šŸ˜– help me out please :<

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Ririmoon
#1
hard same gurl
puppytae
#2
Hey don't burden yourself with label. Just live for the moment.
I mean you don't have to define yourself as straight then when you have lil crush with girls it makes you confused. Love is love.
So you should've known if you like girls because the feelings is the same when you have crush with guys.
kiko98
#3
Hey i don't know you but i was like this for a few years as a teenagers before I realise where (as nocchi commented) i was going through compulsory heterouality, and i realised i was really attracted to girls too. until i actually fully explored that i labelled myself as 'queer' as kind of a bridge-point where i knew i deffo wasn't het but was still figuring it out. sometimes i have days where i hate men and love women, but other days i just want the d! if you ever want to message or talk about it feel free to pm me, it's nothing you should feel ashamed of or stress out too much about, just go with the flow of what you're feeling! the best thing about uality is that it's a spectrum and nothing is ever set in stone :)
nocchi
#4
i think you are, but honestly it's up to you to figure out what your uality is.
you could be going through what is called compulsory heterouality, where you feel like you can't like women bc you're a girl yourself (whether that be conciously or unconciously feeling this way) or you feel weird about your attraction to women bc being straight is the norm. a lot of bi and lesbian women go through this, me included. if you're reading a lot of wlw (woman love woman) content and enjoying it, i think it's safe to say you're wlw, too!
also, woman can have !