Rant of a single med student

Hey,

I'm 25 and have been single for whole my life. Simply I want to find a man whim I love. All the guys I know have a girlfriend or don't interested in a relationship. I don't want to try dating apos, because I believe in falling love with someone I meet. There was a research done in my country and it says my country has  800k females than males. It suddenly hit me that I'm gonna die single without any love. So, any advice from anyone.... I know this is crazy.

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summertwinkle #1
I'm older than you and in the same situation. But I guess I have a different viewpoint, because of my personality. I'm an Aquarius so I might be a strange one. I do not get attached to people easily. Being an introvert, I'm totally horrible at making small talk. I used to have close friends that are no longer close because I'm horrible at keeping in touch. I think having a significant other is a bit of a burden because you can't be too selfish, and need to consider the other's feelings. Because of this, the only time I "dated", which to me, was more like hanging out, became a bit stressful because the other person liked me more than I like him. Also we knew each other when we were young but we were not best friends. Anyway, I figured I can give dating a try since we know each other but in the end, the other person broke it off and I was actually relieved because it relieved my stress. So I think there's nothing wrong with being single. If it's fate, I think I will come across that person but for now, I want to make myself happy instead of trying to find someone to make them happy to indirectly make myself happy.
JaeKnight
#2
I came from the same thinking.
But i do think you should try dating apps. it's a good thing it's not much of a taboo anymore, even my mom was encouraging us to 'chat online'--took me by surprise, really.
Tinder is 90% a hook up app. Maybe you should try Coffee Meets Bagel? Where users are a lot more serious.
lol i sound so experience in these dating apps XD but no, i tried it and i realized my mind is not into dating this year (i dont reply).
But yeah try to get yourself out there. go out and drink/meet. Just dont get attach easily when a guy is 'nice' to you.
i mean these apps aren't really reliable if youre looking for something serious, but it could be a stepping stone to that guy you would meet and fall in love irl