Haneul's Art of Stanning

Hum, so I don't really know what drove me to write this blog, but my fingers are itching to write something lately so here you go.

I actually have this thing about the groups I stan. (To clarify, I only focus on boy groups and my mains are SHINee and EXO). I wrote this also to know if other fans feel the same way.

In every group I like, I LOVE EACH AND EVERY MEMBER to bits. Yep. But my love for them is divided into four parts:

1. Bias. This one is self-explanatory. As someone who mainly (if not only) stans boy groups, this is the person I ing love with all my heart, soul, mind, body, and wallet. Lol. I definitely see this person as a "man" and probably... my ideal type? As in boyfriend, partner, husband, whatever~ the person I often read OC fics with (esp. loljk) but yeah~
2. Bias-wrecker. This is a bit self-explanatory too~ your second favorite member in everything (or sometimes the most lol). Thing is, they are the ones I'd love to bully the most too~ Don't get me wrong, as I said, I love each and every member. But I just can't help thinking about my bias groups as my friends, and definitely if that happens, my bias-wreckers are the ones I'd love to tease the most (in a friendly and not-so-insulting) manner~ :3
3. Brother members. Idk but in every group I stan, there'd always be member/s that I can't/won't see as a man. (Don't get me wrong). Well, I just love them in a brotherly kind of way. Probably this is because I have a lot of brothers, guy cousins, and grew up with a battalion of guy friends (I'm not even joking, I have a lot). And looking at these members remind me of my brothers and friends. Well, usually, they're the sweethearts in their groups so that must be why~ (examples are: Jongdae, Minseok, Jinki, Minho)
4. BFF member. This is like the "Brother member version 2.0." I don't see these members as actual guys. Like I think even if I knew them personally, they're darlings I'd never fall for, simply because I'd love them to be my brothers (or in this case, BFF). The only difference between the two is, if the "Brother members" are the sweetest whom you'd know in a glance that'll treat you like real gentlemen, "BFF members" are the divas of their respective groups. Hah! I guess I need not to say but I'm definitely thinking about Baekhyun and Key while writing this part. ^^

That's it! How about you guys? Do you see your bias group members like this too? :)

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SayCute #1
I very much do~~~
My bias groups would be EXO and Red Velvet and i love all of the members to the bits! Like, I would not be able to imagine each of those groups with a missing member. If they are missing, i'd rightaway start panicking. There was this little article that pointed that your bias is like who you are, as in if you're crazy, that trait will be also in your bias. Explains me because I'm loud af and my bias is Jongdae lol. I'm kinda cheeky too, which explains why Yeri is my bias
And your bias wrecker is actually your ideal type. Like Jongin and in case of Red velvet for me, Wendy. Because they are so perfect i can't help but be wrecked all the time. lol
BFF members would be like Irene, who I think will do better as my mom than my own mom. lol. And Baekhyun too-- I feel like if I knew EXO, Baekhyun would be my best friend and we'd be bickering all the time, for example over who is dumber -- Elsa or Anna. There is this family that I find in both groups that makes me like them so much. I totally share your views~~
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