Surfing on this site, I was bored to death, but I think I found one great comment that explain my frustration over this certain cliché subject that I found in so many fan fics on this site, okay just know that "sehun" the main character is a trashy -hole, and "chae" is the oc girl that is ready to forgive him so easily, anyways here's the powerful comment:

-oOOo- #5 Nov 2, 2018 4:02:21 Reply All Block

" Chapter 30: I thought Chae would know better. She should've still been wary. Even if he's being nice and all, it doesn't take away all that he's done to you. Chae is also rash, and often doesn't make decisions on proper judgement . I hate how female characters act like they're really strong and badass but melt and forget all the bad stuff the male lead has done the moment they do a small considerate thing. It's like, bruh did you forget all the he caused you? I think there's nothing wrong with being considerate to Sehun as he's proven multiple times that he cares for Chae, but she shouldn't give into the romantic part yet.

I feel like there's a reason why Sehun was mean to her in the beginning (of the school year) and it's all gonna go down at one point. There's still so much we don't know about Sehun.

But, you're doing great! This story is really entertaining! " 

if any of you, who stumbled upon this random blog, are curious to know how much trashy sehun's character is the fic is " Blessed Agony "

link: https://www.asianfanfics.com/story/view/891670/blessed-agony-angst-bullying-romance-schoollife-exo-sehun

another story that has the same concept (bullying / boy does one small good act / girl drools and forgive him / live happily ever after in a toxic relationship) is the story " Inner Beauty " fun coincidence: the first lead is also sehun lmao. anyways I hate it, I hate how weak and dependant these fics make the girl, bullying doesn't equal romance for godness sake, anyways that was an unecessary rant shoutout to -oOOo- for being a woke (cool username btw damn wish i had 500 karma points to change mine too ;/ also btw the title was just the first thing I thought about when I wrote this lol srry for the confusion)