when a specific family member thinks I'm being ing arrogant when I don't want to look at every ing single question my sister asks me too look over or to help her on one. 

And I don't mind helping her, I just have my own stuff to do right now. And when I get irritated at my schoolwork and my sister comes to me 20 minutes from the last time I helped her (btw all the questions she asked were common sense) and asks me too look over her work, I tell her in an irritated voice, "no" and she gets quiet and walks away, 

Then that specific family member comes to me and asks me why I didn't help and I tell her I'm doing my own un-timed exam, so she asks why I didn't help her, and I reply back saying, I'm not going to always be there to help her, my sister needs to learn how to do it herself. 

AND THAN THAT FAMILY MEMBER GIVES ME A LOOK AND SAYS I NEED TO STOP BEING ARROGANT. 

WHAT THE DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?? I LITERALLY JUST SAID SHE NEEDS TO LEARN TO DO IT HERSELF AND THAT PERSON CALLS ME ARROGANT??? AND THEN TELLS ME I'VE DONE THIS MULTIPLE TIMES BEFORE.

OFC I'VE SAID THIS EVERY. ING. SINGLE TIME MY SISTER CAME TO ME AND ASKED ABOUT HER HW. LIKE I DON'T ING KNOW AT THAT MOMENT. I DON'T ING REMEMBER. AND THEN AT THE END OF IT I'M THE BAD GUY FOR TRYING TO TELL MY ING OLDER SISTER TO LEARN HOW TO ANSWER QUESTIONS HER ING SELF WITHOUT ASKING FOR HELP. 

AND THAT FAMILY MEMBER CONTINUES TO SAY THAT I NEED TO STOP BEING SO ARROGANT B/C GOD CAN TAKE AWAY MY KNOWLEDGE AND I'M SITTING HERE THINKING "I'M NOT BEING ING ARROGANT, JUST B/C I DON'T WANT TO ANSWER EVERY ING QUESTION". AND THEN CONTINUES TO TRY AND MAKE ME FEEL GUILTY BY SAYING I NEED TO HELP MY SIBLINGS, CAUSE WE NEED TO RELY AND HELP EACH OTHER. 

I ING HELP MY SIBLINGS THE ING MOST (and i'm saying that to be arrogant i honestly do) WHY THE SHOULD I DROP EVERYTHING I'M DOING TO HELP THEM WITH WHATEVER, (most likely) SIMPLE PROBLEM??

i'm so ing mad right now. i honestly can't right now. 

i need to finish up to take home chem exams. sorry for the long rant.