What should I do?

These past few months my activity were extremely busy and hectic schedule line up constantly waiting for my apperance to work on them. Here, the stories're being abandoned by me, and i am so sorry for that.

I'm trying to manage the time, but i dont even have much free time for "me time" because of works and many thing else. And I know, I made you guys dissappointed by me not updating the story regularly :'''
One time, I fell sick, and visit the doctor, it turned out that I have an IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome), and it's so hard to handle because it's disturb my regular activities.

So, my boss sent me back home and told me to take a rest for a few days. I'm away from home to work, different city and far from home. Sometimes the job was really har until I cant bear it and just crying by myself. I dont have a heart to told my parents about this, but I chatted with my friends and shared it with them sometimes. It offered me a good salary and facilities, but it destroyed my body and my mind.

 

And today, I have thought ... should I stop to work here and find a new job, or should I stand here and just prove myself that I am strong enough for this job?

I courage myself to talk to my mom, and she said it's okay i can do what i want to do, also my dad, he said to me it's okay not to work, he still can feed me and buy things for me hehe (love you daddy)

 

so now .. i need your opinion about this things:) i trust you guys can give me a better answer for this thing,

THANKYOU ALL.

love, LIM.

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Aryaprava_1993-
#1
Don`t stress yourself so much..just go with the flow...you know what is good for yourself better than anyone else..so take the decission which your heart accepts..but also you need to think carefully what is good for future..and we all know you are very much capable to decide the best..take care of yourself:)
77_malou_b #2
Do whatever that will give you or improve you self-worth and inner peace, dear author.... Hwaiting!
sleepingprince
#3
I would say to follow your heart . Work is important but health is even more important as your health is wealth. If you want to quit , maybe you can first search another job before handing in your resignation letter. That way it would be safer since I understand it's not easy to find job. Please take good care and rest well. Remember to put your health first
-FruitsAreBeautiful-
#4
I think some people forget that authors still have a life outside on aff and work or study. Don't feel pressured to update, you explained your situation and readers should understand that. If you try to force yourself to update it won't turn out how you would like it to.

Maybe give yourself a few more weeks or so to try to stay at your current job, if you don't like it then you can always go. But make sure you have another job before you leave or that you are secured and don't leave without having anything. But when your parents assured you that they will be there for you then that's good too.
Priyanjana18
#5
Hi lim!!! Long no see!!! Well I am not yet working.... Just freshman at college so I can't give you the best advice..... But I just want to say if you don't enjoy your office work and your body as well not cooperating with the job then better leave it and you will other jobs anyway!!! All the best wishes from deep core of my heart!!! You are an amazing friend and I hope you get well soon!!! I miss you and your stories.... Lol