Girls with a short haircut (rant)

 

I came to talk about something personal.

 

The thing is that I am a girl biologically and I have a short haircut. I’m not talking about a haircut which reaches to your ears or neck. I’m talking about the so-called “guy’s hairstyle”. I’ve had that haircut for like three years, since 9th grade. I’m now in high school, struggling through the second year, ay…

 

Let’s continue with the issue here. I’ll write about some things that I’ve noticed for example.

 

People think that you’re gay if you are a girl with a short haircut.

Actually, they are correct. I’m gay/bi/pan/transgender/everything in the between and still none of them. Great, now I should move on from unnecessary things that you don’t have to know! I’m not saying that all the people are thinking this way; don’t get me wrong. But just for you to know, a girl doesn’t have to be gay if they like wearing boyish clothes etc. Do all the male rock stars like the same if they have long hair? Well, obviously not.

 

Men are not considering you as a person who they could have a crush on because of the reason above.

Boys in school (the ones who are not as mature as you haha, sorry not sorry) are not noticing you, completely looking through you, like you’re an invisible creature. People have their preferences, taste, ideal type and so on. I get it completely. Still, it feels bad that they are not seeing you, your personality, but the looks of you.

 

“You would look better with longer hair” -types of comments on the internet or in real life.

Well, thanks for the unwanted comment and opinion. If you don’t like the way I look, don’t bother to comment it. I’m not asking you to watch my face and e to it, for God’s sake… Those kinds of comments are making me mad and upset. It’s like saying that you’re nice and pretty but you have blue eyes which are not what I like.

 

I’m just ranting here because this makes me MAD. Am I the only one with these struggles? Okay, no one has these issues… Okay, I go away :DD

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OppaIsWaitingForMe #1
I just saw this... GUUURL MY HAIR IS JUST AS SHORT AS YOURS LMFAO! And i am in an all girls school :') and they always try to flirt with me. es im as straight as a rooler. Im fine with them being gay im just not--- Also idk why they always ask for my sc it's annoying seriously. I mean.. if you look like sunggyu-- i'd kiss the out of you ;));););--- I MEAN WHAT??? Anyway! Don't mind that, Im sure you'll find someone who cares about your personality and not going to judge your looks :)
Skye_JM #2
Actually, I understand you. And yeah I've gone through that lol. It's very ty Ik. You cant make people think what you want them to think. So I say stick with what you like or love and everyone who dislikes that :).
sleepingprince
#3
I can totally understand you. I think there's still discrimination and prejudice going around .. I totally hate it whenever guys said something like I would totally date if you have your hair long >< I was like are you kidding me? I'm not gonna change myself for anyone. If I'm ready and if I really like/ love a person , I will do it at my own will without you telling me... Such stereotypical mindset