Relationships and Arguments

In any relationship, you'd come across arguments quite easily because both of you are not perfect and both of you are different. But there's always resolution to most things. It comes with communication and forgiveness.

It's actually not easy to forgive someone when they hurt you so bad, but if you're willing to move on from it and fight for your relationship, then go ahead! But things couldn't be resolved by forgiveness sometimes. There should also be change.

If the person is not willing to change for the better, or if you aren't willing to change for the better, then there is no compromise. Change is actually hard when you've got one or both parties who are too prideful to sacrifice their ego for their relationship. Or maybe they're just not too used to it. Change does not occur overnight... it takes time. But when it's too long and the person haven't changed for the compromise yet, you'll know when too long is too long.

Relationships are hard work, you see, and there are a lot of elements to it, just like the Powerpuff Girls: sugar, spice, and everything nice... except not everything is going to be modest and bubbly, hence you got Buttercup (but hey, she's badass). If you want the good side, you have to be ready for the bad side as well. No matter how much you try to make things perfect, something will always slip through and an argument or disagreement will rise.

We all go through the good and bad times. But one question will remain: do you love and care for your partner for your relationship to work out or do you see no point of return? It's your choice whether or not you think it's even worth it to stay or go somewhere else. Eitherway, go where you feel you're respected and understood. Go somewhere where changes are open. Go somewhere where compromise is at arms length.

Or, you could enjoy the single life. No harm on that. Just be responsible!

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