Have you ever fall in love? I don't know why but for me to fall in loved and to be loved make me weaker. Should I feel this way or shouldn't I?

I think it because when you are in love you could not think about anything besides your loved ones.

Sometimes, I think that when you fall in love, you lose. You lose the game played by two hearts. That is why I am afraid to fall in love and to be loved because I will lose. it will hurts more if I'm the only person who felt that way and the other player is just a player who played my heart. Should I fee this way or shouldn't I

Is it the right choice for me to escape from this game? The love game. 

This is me also. Being the person who will back off if someone loves the person that I love in the same time. I thought that friendship is more important that fighting over to get some boys' attention. Althought I'm the first person who loved him. Should I or Shouldn't I? 

Will you choose to break than to be broken? In a situation that you need to choose whether to be in love or to help people to be in love with the person that you had crush on, what would you choose?

Please answer me. I think I had enough about this topic. Everyone asked me about this. They asked the person who had not been in love and be loved my someone.