MY THERAPY BOYFRIEND + 배나리
bae nari
"when nothing is going right, go left ヽ(゜∇゜)ノ"
flexin my complexion
"dont let insecurities kill your dreams"
PERSONALITY TRAITS —
• positive. friendly | cautious | optimistic | independent
• neutral. perfectionist | talkative | protective |stupid naive
• negative. picky | sneaky | stubborn with a bit of arrogance | lazy
• positive. friendly | cautious | optimistic | independent
• neutral. perfectionist | talkative | protective |
• negative. picky | sneaky | stubborn with a bit of arrogance | lazy
ELABORATION — warning; long essay is coming up
• friendly. since nari is really talkative, people finds it very easy to befriend with her since she has many things to talk about even it is ridiculous. nari always seem to be the first to make conversation and tends to talk more if the other person is really awkward. for her, being friendly is a good deed since we treat people nicely and of course,she will feels good about herself. nari can be friendly with intimates,strangers, co-workers, babies and even her boss.it can be a bad thing tho since some people is uncomfortable with it especially because she loves to do dad jokes and thats always make an awkward situation. ehem but thats not the case since friendly is a really goodd personality trait /nods/ she knows she can get rid of shyness in herself by being friendly :)))
• cautious. nari maybe not socially-cautious as she is too friendly but when it comes to things and health, she can be extremely carefulshe always observing her surroundings and looking for anything that can be dangerous or harmful. it is not wrong to be cautious,right? she is not that overly cautious but she knows what is safe and what is dangerous or harmful. she always spot hidden camera or prank very quick making her friends hate to play prank to her. thats why people always annoyed when it comes to her birthday because she always the one who prank them. She also always well-prepared for anything like for camping with her friends, she is the only one who brings things like lamp or small pillows that her friends call her backpack 'magic backpack'. nari sometimes even dreams about being a superhero since she 'always' save people from danger ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
• optimistic. nari is really optimistic person and always think she is a better person than anyone else. eventhough she is doing a wrong thing, she know failure is the way to succeed. thats why she never judge people by its cover since she think that everone is nice. since nari dont like fights, she always try to spread more positive vides and cheer people up.also, she once read that optimistic people has healthier heart and as a healthy-obsess, she must follow it. being optimistic makes her mind more open and likes to feel new experiences and feeling. she never gets shy if she do something wrong, like wearing cloth inside out. she will say something like 'it is the newest trend,okay. youre too old school to know'. and thats how she still mange to survive the world
• independent. as a girl who is ambitious and living in a not-so-rich family makes her become more independent. She knows its not good to keep burden her father. thats why she studied really hard back then. with her positivity, she knows that she can do anything by herself while not relying to others because she believe in her capibility. although because of this, many people always relying on her to do their work but she never care because she know that it is a good thing to help other (lol noobies). she likes to be herself and taking care of herself by herself. she wants to control her life herself and always prefer to enjoy most of her time alone. although she always wants to know how it feels to have many friends and always hanging out with them, she always just reading books at home and only go out when she wants to take a walk or something like that. "be independent and take the world head on!" she says.
• picky. it comes when choosing things especially on food and people. for example, when she is walking with a group of people, she always went to people who talk a lot since she wants to interact with them so they can be friends and not walking with the ones who always looking at their phones or she will completely ignored. other than that, she always get herself away from the hot head ones because she afraid that her temper will go out since she sometimes has short temper. for food, her interest for seafood is realy low. maybe she is an optimistic person but when it comes to food, it is different. she never likes to try new food that she never tried. when she is going out with her friends, it will be a never ending round of "um can i have ___ but without the ___ ?". wel, people give her shade, but what do they know? she can eat what she wants and she doesnt has to eat what she doesnt like
• sneaky. she is really sneaky as a cat. this trait does not had any bad effect on her(she thinks) but sometimes it gets on people. once when she is in primary school,her mother told her to go on a diet because she kept gain weight that is caused from her love for food. but nobody knows till now, that she still eat chocolates and snacks at midnight. she always likes to know what is going on around this world, and sometimes play a few tricks to life, but she still suprised by it and having fun taking things as they come. as long as her sleuthing and scheming arent getting her into any trouble, she's good to go! all her friends should be extremely careful since she likes to prank people and even to hoonie.
• stubborn + a bit of arrogance. even though she always can accept new things, sometimes she can be a really stubborn girl. once she extremely in love with something, she cannot move on and never change her mind. she also resort to ad hominem attacks. she last out those who challenge her facts eventhough it is wrong. she always avoid information that contradicts her belief even though she dont know which is right or wrong. since she only read facts from book that confirmed her biases(magazines ofc), she dont really know about other opinions. other than her stubbornish, people can say that she has a bit of arrogance too. for example, if she dont know how to do something, she will not ask other people because she thinks she can do it herself and always brags up about her not-so-high knowledge /facepalm/
• lazy. she is a sleepy head or more like a couch potato and can sleep in any position. once she heard one said that sleep is the key to everything and she know it is true. every moment can be waste and being filled with sleep. when someone asked her to do something, she said that she has some work but actully the work is sleep. other than that, she always buy unnecessary things (dust mop slippers etc) to make her life easier eventhough the things really show her laziness. she even tend to hold her pee for an inhumanely long time eventhough the toilet are just like 10 feet away from her room, she only take breaks when things gt worse. but the laziest this thats she had do is messaging her father eventhough he is is in the next room. /facpalm again/
• perfectionist. nari is always ready for anything so there is no room for mistakes. she has this specific manner of how things should be done. many times, people doesnt get her because how specific she is. as long as something is out of its place, it cannot be accepted. like toast with peanut butter but without jam. like, how bad is it ?!?!. she also has all-or-nothing approach. its either she do everythingg well, or she will not do it at all. its all bout the end result. she doesnt care what happen between or what it takes, the result must be what she wants or she will get frustrated. but of course, people never seems to care abut it since when she is frustrated, she still looks calm making people questioning if she mad or not. success is never enough for her because everytime she reach it, she'll set a higher goal and rarely cintent with status quo.
• protective. nari is really protective especially to her family(includes hoonie), but people never see it. you may think nari is like that type of girl who likes to dominate and control their life, but she is not. there is really thin line between protective-dominating and protective-caring, and nari is the later. she cares about other problems and one of her fears is that her family getting hurt. like she'll do anything to achieve her goal, she will do the same to make her family and friends success. nari really cant help seeing others hurt or she will suddenly cry without herself knowing.you can see how protective she is when she starts nagging even though you just had a small cut. this also always be the excuse to get out of her room eventhough her mother had lecture her about getting out to get some air for a million times. "im trying to protect my skin!"
• talkative. she talks all the time to everyone . nari always try to be first one who says something when there is an awkward moment in any case because she wants to make friends. when she already comfortable with you, you can find herself jumping from one topic to another. people tend to always shy at first meet, but not with nari. it doesnt takes time for her to fit in people. although you are uncomfortable at first, but of course, as time flies, you will love her. actually she doesnt really like quite people. she always hope the person she is talking to will always more interactions to her.eventhough she talks very much, the topic always the same yet she still wonder why her father say her topic is not interesting to anyone eventhough she though it is interesting.
• cautious. nari maybe not socially-cautious as she is too friendly but when it comes to things and health, she can be extremely carefulshe always observing her surroundings and looking for anything that can be dangerous or harmful. it is not wrong to be cautious,right? she is not that overly cautious but she knows what is safe and what is dangerous or harmful. she always spot hidden camera or prank very quick making her friends hate to play prank to her. thats why people always annoyed when it comes to her birthday because she always the one who prank them. She also always well-prepared for anything like for camping with her friends, she is the only one who brings things like lamp or small pillows that her friends call her backpack 'magic backpack'. nari sometimes even dreams about being a superhero since she 'always' save people from danger ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
• optimistic. nari is really optimistic person and always think she is a better person than anyone else. eventhough she is doing a wrong thing, she know failure is the way to succeed. thats why she never judge people by its cover since she think that everone is nice. since nari dont like fights, she always try to spread more positive vides and cheer people up.also, she once read that optimistic people has healthier heart and as a healthy-obsess, she must follow it. being optimistic makes her mind more open and likes to feel new experiences and feeling. she never gets shy if she do something wrong, like wearing cloth inside out. she will say something like 'it is the newest trend,okay. youre too old school to know'. and thats how she still mange to survive the world
• independent. as a girl who is ambitious and living in a not-so-rich family makes her become more independent. She knows its not good to keep burden her father. thats why she studied really hard back then. with her positivity, she knows that she can do anything by herself while not relying to others because she believe in her capibility. although because of this, many people always relying on her to do their work but she never care because she know that it is a good thing to help other (lol noobies). she likes to be herself and taking care of herself by herself. she wants to control her life herself and always prefer to enjoy most of her time alone. although she always wants to know how it feels to have many friends and always hanging out with them, she always just reading books at home and only go out when she wants to take a walk or something like that. "be independent and take the world head on!" she says.
• picky. it comes when choosing things especially on food and people. for example, when she is walking with a group of people, she always went to people who talk a lot since she wants to interact with them so they can be friends and not walking with the ones who always looking at their phones or she will completely ignored. other than that, she always get herself away from the hot head ones because she afraid that her temper will go out since she sometimes has short temper. for food, her interest for seafood is realy low. maybe she is an optimistic person but when it comes to food, it is different. she never likes to try new food that she never tried. when she is going out with her friends, it will be a never ending round of "um can i have ___ but without the ___ ?". wel, people give her shade, but what do they know? she can eat what she wants and she doesnt has to eat what she doesnt like
• sneaky. she is really sneaky as a cat. this trait does not had any bad effect on her(she thinks) but sometimes it gets on people. once when she is in primary school,her mother told her to go on a diet because she kept gain weight that is caused from her love for food. but nobody knows till now, that she still eat chocolates and snacks at midnight. she always likes to know what is going on around this world, and sometimes play a few tricks to life, but she still suprised by it and having fun taking things as they come. as long as her sleuthing and scheming arent getting her into any trouble, she's good to go! all her friends should be extremely careful since she likes to prank people and even to hoonie.
• stubborn + a bit of arrogance. even though she always can accept new things, sometimes she can be a really stubborn girl. once she extremely in love with something, she cannot move on and never change her mind. she also resort to ad hominem attacks. she last out those who challenge her facts eventhough it is wrong. she always avoid information that contradicts her belief even though she dont know which is right or wrong. since she only read facts from book that confirmed her biases(magazines ofc), she dont really know about other opinions. other than her stubbornish, people can say that she has a bit of arrogance too. for example, if she dont know how to do something, she will not ask other people because she thinks she can do it herself and always brags up about her not-so-high knowledge /facepalm/
• lazy. she is a sleepy head or more like a couch potato and can sleep in any position. once she heard one said that sleep is the key to everything and she know it is true. every moment can be waste and being filled with sleep. when someone asked her to do something, she said that she has some work but actully the work is sleep. other than that, she always buy unnecessary things (dust mop slippers etc) to make her life easier eventhough the things really show her laziness. she even tend to hold her pee for an inhumanely long time eventhough the toilet are just like 10 feet away from her room, she only take breaks when things gt worse. but the laziest this thats she had do is messaging her father eventhough he is is in the next room. /facpalm again/
• perfectionist. nari is always ready for anything so there is no room for mistakes. she has this specific manner of how things should be done. many times, people doesnt get her because how specific she is. as long as something is out of its place, it cannot be accepted. like toast with peanut butter but without jam. like, how bad is it ?!?!. she also has all-or-nothing approach. its either she do everythingg well, or she will not do it at all. its all bout the end result. she doesnt care what happen between or what it takes, the result must be what she wants or she will get frustrated. but of course, people never seems to care abut it since when she is frustrated, she still looks calm making people questioning if she mad or not. success is never enough for her because everytime she reach it, she'll set a higher goal and rarely cintent with status quo.
• protective. nari is really protective especially to her family(includes hoonie), but people never see it. you may think nari is like that type of girl who likes to dominate and control their life, but she is not. there is really thin line between protective-dominating and protective-caring, and nari is the later. she cares about other problems and one of her fears is that her family getting hurt. like she'll do anything to achieve her goal, she will do the same to make her family and friends success. nari really cant help seeing others hurt or she will suddenly cry without herself knowing.you can see how protective she is when she starts nagging even though you just had a small cut. this also always be the excuse to get out of her room eventhough her mother had lecture her about getting out to get some air for a million times. "im trying to protect my skin!"
• talkative. she talks all the time to everyone . nari always try to be first one who says something when there is an awkward moment in any case because she wants to make friends. when she already comfortable with you, you can find herself jumping from one topic to another. people tend to always shy at first meet, but not with nari. it doesnt takes time for her to fit in people. although you are uncomfortable at first, but of course, as time flies, you will love her. actually she doesnt really like quite people. she always hope the person she is talking to will always more interactions to her.eventhough she talks very much, the topic always the same yet she still wonder why her father say her topic is not interesting to anyone eventhough she though it is interesting.
• naive. eventho people see her as a mature person since she is really independent, she actually really a childlike. she always consequently cannot make wise desicions because she doesnt have enough information to do so. she is innocently authentic that she never cover up their emotions or play games. being clueless actually a good thing for her too since know nothing about something will make her put more efforts into doing it. nari's naive is all about rejecting stupid definitions of maturity. its about brushing aside rules that no longer make any sense. she is brave enough to ignore conventional advice that doesnt apply to her.although being naive give her pros and cons(too nice but stupid), she never thinking of changing her personality
quote nari says —
.wake me up they start selling giant nuggets instead of this lil cute nuggets
./crying after looking at stray dogs/ whyyyy
.wah i never expect you to be this pretty /talking w/ a mirror/
.hoonie, when i died, i hope you will not forget to attend my funeral. LIKE YOU FORGOT ME AS YOUR OWNER
.listen. i ate that chocopie at 2am because im that desperate k. dont judge me
.wait. what is the difference between climate and weather again?
.where is my gummybearsss
.what do you call a fake noodle? AN IMPASTA
things nari usually do —
.Dancing in elevators, bathroom stalls, basically any small place in which she find herself alone.
.rereading an email the second after she sent it
.throwing away the box from her microwave meal but then has to fish it out to find out how long to cook it (EVERYDAMNTIME)
.rehearsing whatever stories that she would tell as a guest in a talk show in the future
.Googling something without thinking and then staring at the search results like "what just happened how did I get here?"
.Pretending she is in an action movie when she is out for a run.
.staging fictional convo with jihoon so suddenly
.Pretending she is a private detective in public places and imagining backstories for the people around her.
.Having fake fights in her head so she can be ready if she ever have to defend her convictions.
.Stopping the microwave at one second just to prove she can.(click)
quote nari says —
.wake me up they start selling giant nuggets instead of this lil cute nuggets
./crying after looking at stray dogs/ whyyyy
.wah i never expect you to be this pretty /talking w/ a mirror/
.hoonie, when i died, i hope you will not forget to attend my funeral. LIKE YOU FORGOT ME AS YOUR OWNER
.listen. i ate that chocopie at 2am because im that desperate k. dont judge me
.wait. what is the difference between climate and weather again?
.where is my gummybearsss
.what do you call a fake noodle? AN IMPASTA
things nari usually do —
.Dancing in elevators, bathroom stalls, basically any small place in which she find herself alone.
.rereading an email the second after she sent it
.throwing away the box from her microwave meal but then has to fish it out to find out how long to cook it (EVERYDAMNTIME)
.rehearsing whatever stories that she would tell as a guest in a talk show in the future
.Googling something without thinking and then staring at the search results like "what just happened how did I get here?"
.Pretending she is in an action movie when she is out for a run.
.staging fictional convo with jihoon so suddenly
.Pretending she is a private detective in public places and imagining backstories for the people around her.
.Having fake fights in her head so she can be ready if she ever have to defend her convictions.
.Stopping the microwave at one second just to prove she can.(click)
BACKGROUND + EVERYDAY LIFE —
• unfolding the history — on january 15th in seoul , south korea, nari was born as a bundle of joy to both of her parents. her life was not too rich nor too poor, because her parents own a chicken restaurant, it is just okay as long she get to life. plus she gets to eat chicken for free. hoho. her laughter had bring joy to her parents. when she was three years old, her brother jinyoung was born to the world. it was getting annoying when he gets all the love for the three she get all for herself only. but as she grown up, she leardned to be a more responsible sister to her brother. from her childhood, she always loves art. mostly her freetimes are filled with drawing nor singing in the shower alone. she juat passed all of her school years just about an inch before failing and that's hard for her to survive in the high school, so she start studying hard which brought her to what she is today, a successful university student majoring in art. she started working at caffe benne when she was in middle school which where she met her bestfriend for the first time. they never ever seen being split aprt eversince. bff forevah. since she was alraedy entering the university, her mother thought it would be nice for her to move out from the house to learn being independent. it was hard for her to leaves the house since she was the only daughter in her family and ofcourse she got to be pampered a little bit while jinyoung go soo jealous of it.
• home sweet home — snuggling with her parents are almost an important thing for her to do besides messing jinyoung's life. her family are the backbone for her and cannot life without it mostly. 24 hours 7 days a week must be connected although she was living apart away from her hometown. plus she got tons of visit from jinyoung /whisper/ coughspycough. her mother always make her to get awake early eventhough in the weekends because the restaurant need to be opened everyday for hungry peeps. basically 6.50 everyday coughevenschooldayscough. she worked for her parents when she was in the middle school before got a job in caffe bene.
• a princess going solo — this was the hardest part of her life. moving out. not to mention living alone. nari decided to stay in hwang complex where it is near to her house and her university. every thing is on herself by this time. no yelling to get her wake up everyday.no scrambling for television. nobody to judge her everyday. if she's not great in cooking she will get starving okno.
• home sweet home — snuggling with her parents are almost an important thing for her to do besides messing jinyoung's life. her family are the backbone for her and cannot life without it mostly. 24 hours 7 days a week must be connected although she was living apart away from her hometown. plus she got tons of visit from jinyoung /whisper/ coughspycough. her mother always make her to get awake early eventhough in the weekends because the restaurant need to be opened everyday for hungry peeps. basically 6.50 everyday coughevenschooldayscough. she worked for her parents when she was in the middle school before got a job in caffe bene.
• a princess going solo — this was the hardest part of her life. moving out. not to mention living alone. nari decided to stay in hwang complex where it is near to her house and her university. every thing is on herself by this time. no yelling to get her wake up everyday.no scrambling for television. nobody to judge her everyday. if she's not great in cooking she will get starving okno.
• basic student's life — nari have to wake up early, basically 7 a.m. to meet up with her class schedules. lazily crawling out from bed, bath, have some homemade coffee that taste terrible af. went to university. studying plus sleeping when she needed in class. eat drink study eat. and went home. as friends you could say it was always sekyung. that was before she got jihoon. when jihoon started living with her, almost of the time are filled with jihoon eventhough she oftenly get ignored by jihoon. before this when waking up, she always when straight to the toilet to take a bath but after she got jihoon , she would chase jihoon around the house to give him a morning kiss. during weekdays she will went to university from 0800 until 1900. then walks home from university cause it is not that far. wash up . about 2030 she would have her candlelight dinner with jihoon everynight. a movie marothon with sekyung or baejin or alone during weeknight. she would be probably sleeping on couch everyday. she only walks around the park with jihoon is feels like it
RELATIONSHIPS —
PET NAME — jihoon but he never approves it and only show up if you call him hoonie (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻
REASON FOR ADOPTING — she actually wants to get a dog so she could be in shape. ya know, walking the dog, chase the dog around her house. and other things like that after her friend, sekyung, actually lose 2kg after getting a therapy dog for that purpose /coughjealouscough/ . she thought to get a fit dog like a bulldog or labrador retriever but ended up liking cute lil hoonie. but hey, she still can walk him ∩(︶▽︶)∩ and also, her mother allows her to keep a therapy pet for therapy purposes so she can use this as an excuse to keep pets "I LAV ANIMALSSSS"
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