A little Advice?
Hey guys,
So I just have something that has been troubling me for a few weeks now and I needed to get it out somewhere and seeing as none of you guys know me personally, I thought I would tell you and ask you what I should do because it is really affecting me and surprise surprise...its about a boy (lame I know)
So this person, let's call him X is in the year above me at school. I know him from out of school though and he only transferred to my school last year, but I have known him for about three years now. So X is a good friend of mine and we were really good friends even before he came to my school and started in the year above.
So last year, I started walking to school with X because our routes are really similar and we would just happen to see each other and we would talk about stuff all the time, girls he liked, boys I liked...just stuff like that.
In summer, the outside of school group that I originally knew him from went on a "tour" to Italy. It was at the beginning of this tour that I realised that I actually liked him a little...and it takes a lot for me to start crushing on a boy, take my word for it.
I acted normal around him and didn't tell anyone about it and then on like the fourth day or something, we were chilling in my room. There was about five of us and it was probably like four in the morning, we had been drinking and playing card games but we were all sobering up and were quite tired. X was sitting in my bed and he just casually goes "Yo come spoon" and I was like "no ew go away" jokingly and then he gave me this really cute face and was like "Aw please come spoon" and I was like "fine" and yeah so we were spooning lololol and he was like cuddly and stuff (it feels really weird telling you all the deets so I'll keep it minimum) anyway we were talking and stuff and it was really close and intimate and nice ughhhh.
anyway so I was just playing with his hair and stuff and then we were talking and then....yeah we got off lol. So that was nice lmao and then everyone else went to the balcony to watch the sunrise bc it was like five in the morning and we cuddled and stuff and I was just leaning on him and it was so nice and he's so warm ughhhhh ew I'll stop.
Anyway so they had to go back to their room because there are rules lol and the next day wasn't awkward at all, it was like it was before. So in the end we went home and then didn't talk for the rest of summer ( great I know, we had like one snapchat convo and then it fizzled out). and then we had a leavers concert thingy and I was so over him at that point but then I saw him again and holy guys I actually fricking like him.
there was a party after the concert and we were talking a lot and stuff and I guess being flirty and all I could think was " I really want to kiss you again" and if I had been there for another half an hour it would have happened but oh well, i had to go home.
Anyway so school started and we have walked together like four times in three weeks and I feel like we are drifting away and I'm not even just worried about loosing our non existant relationship, but losing him as a friend bc i really don't want that to happen and because he is in the year above I have no lessons to him and he has a different lunch hour and loads of half days and I just feel as though he doesn't want to walk to school with me anymore which is really sad because we had such good talks.
So I got my friend to investigate how he felt about me and she snapped him and asked him about girls and was like "lol I still ship you and (my name)" and he was like "haha yeah she's cute" and he bascially told her that he doesn't think he has time for a relationship with anyone because of work and stuff but QUOTE
"Yeah I would definately get off with her again at a party"
So I don't know how to feel about that because i dont really just want to be "That girl he would get off with at a party" idk if thats stupid but yeah I feel like I should have more self respect than t ojust be tha to someone idk. ( i know i have made him sound like a little bit of a but i promise he isn't, he's really sweet)
I just don't want to lose him as a friend and I lowkey want to be with him.
any advice??? I know this was long sorry but I just really needed to get it out of my system, Please comment if you have any advice, I will love you forever and sorry for being such a pathetic (it's a crush I know and I should get over it) because I don't want to get all excited about walking to school with him and then not bumping into him and then feeling so disappointed for the rest of the day, I just don't enjoy it and I don't want to feel like this anymore.
if you read it all, thank you so much, I love you xxx
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