Little personal. I'm confused.

So recently a girl I know came out bi and I live with a couple who poli and bi. My friend who came out thinks I'm curious because of her and the other two girls one thinks I'm bi-courious while the other thinks im hetroflexible. So now I'm really confused and don't know what to think. So I like opinion from maybe those who's been through this or know what any advise. Cause right now I'm really lost. 

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JunMomney
#1
When I was younger (like in second grade) all my teachers thought I was a lesbian because I cut my hair real short. And then in 5th grade I have a phase where I wear these big 90's JNCO pants (It was really in back in my school that time, it was already 00's let me tell you) and big shirts and I have short hair again and I hangout with lesbians that time, so I thought (at that time) that I was a lesbian. But then I still have crushes with boys and I really really really love Linkin Park that time. 6th grade came and then I was into skirts and those pointed stiletto shoes.

Then I once met a really pretty girl in Church. Like she just sat with her parents behind me and my parents and when I saw her I was blown away because, she's really attractive. And I cannot stop thinking about her for about 2 weeks even though I never saw her again after that. I was super confused with my uality, she shookt my world for those 2 weeks, then I got over it eventually.

And then back to 3 years ago almost all my friends were lesbians and gays again because I co-founded this Dog Group (Pet Groups are really big here in my country) and this one lesbian friend had feelings with me but I rejected her, but they keep teasing us and . I rejected her because I'm straight.

My point is, I guess you will just know it. It may take you a while, it may take you a few (or a lot) of different (es and orientations) lovers or experiences before you truly know what you are.

IDK if I'm making sense, I just told what I experienced. Some people straight away knows and I guess they are lucky.
eee356
#2
They can not choose ''the right'' uality for you, it doesn't work that way :(. If you're confused, don't think about it too much, let yourself live and mature enough so you'll know later. There are sooo many labels and if you're not sure which one you are don't let your friends choose it, just let it go. It isn't a game/joke/whatever, it's all about youuu! (and your health, future relationships etc.) Probably you're young and still in a progress of finding yourself...
If you stay you're bi-curious or heteroflexible, people can understand you differently because pretty much everyone has their own view on it. It's okay to be curious or not knowing everything about yourself, but if you're not sure - don't do anything. Sooner or later you'll know - you need to be mature enough for that or have experience, some people just know their orientation sooner. For me it sounds crazy to try suggest your friend labels when she/he doesn't even know himself/herself what she/he feels. Be careful with your uality, it's 100% personal.

take care ❤ :)
Choseong
#3
Are you curious that u wanna be with her or you know you might want to be with her???