Lost - for lost souls

Hello!

I decided to start a new series of blogs... Lost - for lost souls. I decided this for many reasons. I feel that a lot of people on sites like Aff actually express a lot of emotions that they would not normally show thanks to the anonyminity that sites like Aff have. Myself included. Maybe because of what I study, people around me, some close, some far are almosy always struggling with something, mental, emotional, physical or social.

After my last post, which was about life being unfair and how I decided to try to deal with it. I felt that sometimes you just need to have someone there to say I am here and I am your friend or just simply someone is listening.

I came to a realization last December holidays,  when I went back home, that I am actually quite a posistive person despite previously believeing I was a positive pessimist... I get down really easily and think negatively and when that happens I generally act upon , normally in forms of the emotion anger rather than sadness. I am also a very confrontational person. So when anger and confrontation mix... Its not great at all. But at the same time I am normally able to pull myself out before I reach that level if anger (although not always sucessful)

I didn't start this blog to tell you how to think or tell you what you should do like I know it all. I just wanted to open the narrative. 

If you need a friend I would love to be your friend!

Lets talk and learn from each other!

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AXISfling
#1
Thank you. Let's listen to each others worries, my dear.
AFF is the most beautiful platform for people who are in need of a listening circle.

Share them to us when you are ready!
CuteSnowflake #2
Tbh I want to express myself here too, but my life is such a big mess, I get frustrated just writing and I never say anything. It's because I say one thing, but to explain it I have to say some other things too, which cannot be understood without explaining either and so it goes like that...

Anyways, I'd love to see those blogs. I don't know if you've heard of sleepingprince (user on aff), but he also makes motivational or such blog to make people feel better or more positive :)
ToxicVixen #3
i tend to pile up my frustration and anger so when i reached my limit point i just explode. that way isnt also the best solution because it will hurt you and others. like you suggested, talking and sharing is one of the best ways to deal with negativity.
sleepingprince
#4
I think it's good that you create something like this to help others :) Thumbs up for that
jjawon #5
We are quite similar I think. I tend to overthink about things which are probably unnecessary to others but I find offensive. And I get easily affected so often times, my anger and other negative emotions overtake me which I know is not good. But I can't help it.