Social Help

Guys I need some help if you’d be so kind.


So…. My roommate introduced me to a website where I can talk to people around the world and a guy messaged me who I really like.


We’ve been talking to each other for about a week or so now…. Sort of…. But I’m so horrible at keeping a conversation going and replying. My anxiety S.U. C. K. S!!!


There’s been two instances where we talked but then I couldn’t reply because I’d over think, etc.

One of those instances is happening now.


Both have happened where I won’t reply for days (first time was 2 days, this time is 2 going on 3).


I really like this guy!!!! He’s so nice and very very talented (and good looking… He has a bit of a BTS Jimin look). His name is Ari and he’s half Vietnamese, half Korean. He lives in the states but on the eastern side of the country (I’m on western) so we have a 3 hour time difference.


Anyway, I really really REALLY want to continue talking to him but I dont know how. My anxiety isnt helping either because the longer I go without replying the more I feel like I’m irritating him.


Can anyone give me socialising advice or encouragement or something PLEASE?????? I’d super appriciate it!


Thanks.

~Savie

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sleepingprince
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How about you plan what topic to talk and write it down? Then if so happen that he ask you the questions that's on the list you just follow and reply according to what you have prepared.. Then when your relation have enter to a new level when the time is right you can just be honest with him about your situation. If he's a genuine friend then he will be understanding :) So don't worry to much just take it slow and go at your pace