This past few weeks , i just find out that my dad is a gay . I had no problem with it , there's no reason to hate him , he fulfilled his duty as a father . Okay my father is a widow , my mom died 6 yrs ago . Well how did i find out ? well currently i had no cp to used , my phone got snatched on dec 30 . So i often used/borrow my dad cp . I'm not a privacy invader , well i got curious , after accidently reading some txt from unknown number/anonymous person . Then one night my father sleep early , so  i take the opportunity to know everything , to kill my curiousity i open his phone then i find out everything . I cried silently that night , not because i'm dissapointed , well partly but becuase i want to make my father's happy . I want to open up to him and tell him that "DAD DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY , DON'T MIND US , WE'RE FINE WITH IT , WE ACCEPT YOU FROM WHO YOU ARE& WHAT YOU ARE . YOUR HAPPINESS IS MORE IMPORTANT TO US AND WE LOVE YOU" i want to tell those words to him , but i can't because if i say that , it will change everything , i just imagined the consequences , a distance , we might get cold to each other , or worst than that , i can't afford to lose my father . I just want him to be happy , to be able to do what makes him happy , freely. He's the best dad you'd wish for , he has everything , he's so caring , loveable to us , very patience , understanding , he prioritize us first , before his own self , his own happiness . We're not from a rich family , but he make sure that he gives the support that we need , whether it comes to money or other things . Need some help guy's , piece of advise , help me what am i gonna do ?