How to approach girls?

Ok so strange question. Basically since getting into university, making female friends is such a challenge that I must say I have no female friends at all. I have females I am friendly with but most of the time I barely talk to them because I don't know how to communicate with them. I guess because I don't want to embarass myself, and I always feel the need to impress females. Males are easier in that sense, maybe because they're generally laid back and I could discuss anime, and I could look like poop and they wouldn't judge me for it. The last time where I made a female friend myself was when I was 13, and back then you could talk about any old random thing and it would be cool, mostly about boys though. Also a problem because I have a boyfriend, and talking about boys is like a bit iffy. Also the girls that are around me, they don't like anime, they don't like kpop and they don't seem to like anything I like so no we have nothing in common, but they're all really nice. I don't know what to do. I live in a house with my housemates that are boys, and sometimes I wish I had that sort of bromance, but with a girl. I have female friends back at home but here at university I don't. It's just really lonely sometimes. Especially when my male friends might want a dude night to themselves. Help this poor soul? Pleasu?

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sleepingprince #1 Feb 12, 2017 17:37:49

I think you should just be you ? They will be friends with you as you are :) Sincerity is important . I think that's all you need

Laymontae #2 Feb 12, 2017 15:41:46

in my opinion, just treat them like how you treat your guy friends but not in the sense that you'll talk about say, football 24/7. in my opinion, the key to making friends is treat them as yourself. how would you want someone to talk to you?
personally from my experiences, its fun if a person actually asks questions about you instead of them constantly blabbering about themselves. This word is the most useful when it comes to talking: "What about you?" or.. "How about you?"

like say she asked you "What kind of music do you listen to?" and you explain to her you like kpop, then ask her back "what about you?"

but then again, there are some girls who aren't interested to talk to you then its simple: ditch them!

making friends can be hard especially when its with the opposite gender cause sometimes they might mistaken you for flirting when you really just want to befriend them hahaha.

good luck!