Why do you fail even though you worked hard already? Why do feel like giving up everytime you fall? Why things keep happening the opposite way of what you are expecting? 

Everytime something does not go my way, I ask myself questions. What can I do to improve the situation? Why do I fail? Who can I consult with? Im sure you know that life won't always go your way. It will usually trudge ahead to the contradicting direction. It will constantly lead you to a pitfall. But even though you fall a  lot of times into the pitfall, there is a ladder that will take you back up.That ladder is called the Ladder of Hope. There is always hope. Life is about how many times you are willing to climb up that Ladder of Hope, its not about how many times you can avoid the pitfall. 

If you don't make use of that ladder, it is the same as you living in the pitfall forever. If you choose to live in misery, you can go ahead and make yourself miserable in the pitfall alone. 

But I know you are not failure. You are a fighter. You know the beauty in life so you have to get up and climb up that ladder to view the world. Listen to the different perspective of people. Failing an exam or losing your loved ones is not an excuse for you to live in the dark pitfall. Instead, it should make you stronger to go further towards success. I know its easier said than done but you still need to try your best in everything you do.