ATTACK ON YOUTUBE / FANWAR?

Guys, u know im not that type to get mad or into fights but this happend even tho i didn't expect it.

Since there are lot of us here i want your PEACEFUL opinion regarding this issue. 

I am on Kpop for many years and i thought times had changed but like i see no.....

So let's start with my problem. U can count is at cuberbullying or a fanwar?


2 Days ago i posted comment on youtube under MV - Beast > Butterfly

Lol XD 
I'm so dumb i thought they made cover of BTS'S Butterfly XD
I am BEAUTY....but my opinion is that BTS'S butterfly is better T.T Sorry...don't hate me

The next minute i got CURSED, BASHED, YELLED AT

Words like : , Idiot, Retard, Faker  were used against me even tho as u can see up, i didn't curse anyone. 

Since i got so hurt i replied : 

To all who think i bashed - No i WASNT! Im srsly pissed off cause whenever a fan wanna say something thats not "omg so beautiful, love u" is considered hate comment! I am not newbie in kpop i am in kpop for 11 years so im not a kid picking fights i love both groups ( and many more) many fans think that being a "true fan" means to love everything the idol produces but thats simply not life! we all have songs we dont like, or just isnt our style, do we bash each other or leave the fandom? No! So let me explain myself to all of u above. I, love both Beast and BTS and others but its not wrong to compare, cause i DIDNT say i hate or dislike the Beast song! If u ladies, cant take that ordinary human has slightly different ( not hateful) comment for ur idol, think about urself a bit. They are not perfect, i am not perfect, u are not perfect. They many time's themselves compare each other with other groups so why ordinary human like me, who loves both groups cant?! Sorry but im against these "picky fights" in fandoms. We are in same fandom, so why act like this to me? I didnt curse, nor disrespected the group i love. 
Even in those trainee competitions they compare each other gosh....
I feel fans cant take real critism ( even tho i wasnt even doing that ) 

 
 
After it i got more hateful comments and more and more and currently there are 50 comments. OF COURSE at least two ppl showed up and took my side and i am VERY thankful.
 
 
Many of comments claimed that since i am in Kpop 11 years why i don't know the RULES....Wow, before entering kpop do you get like a Guideliness Book what to do and not do? Wow.....Is it me or are kpop fans so strict/harsh towards each other! They are all sweet to idols but so heartless to ppl who mean no harm! They took my comment as if i was THREAT, a KILLER who wants to murder BEAST oh and uneducated ! 
 
Maybe many of you hold thos ''rule'' to heart > DON'T COMPARE!
 
So....you say MC should get bashed when he said V looks like Daehyun? Oh wait, fans can't bash him cause he is an MC, part of the tv! That's why i am SO angry! IDOLS CAN compare themselves between us but I CANT! When some groups do cover of sunbae's songs do u honestly think they dont say ''Original is better'' ?! ARE THEY ROYALTY that i should bow to?! WHy Idols seem to have different human rights like i do! 
 
 
SCENARIO 1>
A worker has to do a presentation and shows it to the boss...But he says ''WHy the  other company has it better" 
This situation is interpreted in this scenario. Worker is a fan...Do you think in real life she would yell at the boss and call him ? Yes, she can try but get fired. aian every day life there is comparing! ''The apple is greener this that apple, i eat this one'' U compare everyday to chose what to eat! So why are idols so precious that i can't compare, EVEN THOUGH i am not hateful!
 
I got also comments like ''Don't like dont comment'', ''Who asked your opinion?'' , ''WHy are you even saying it? It's impolite!'' 
 
HUGE excuse me! Am i human? Hmmm i checked, yes. Can i comment my opinion? Yes, cause it's my right obviously. Did i post anything hateful that i showed the group that i hate them? No. Am I ASHAMED of my comment? NO, I AM INNOCENT!  
 
U can see the ''war'' if u can say here > https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLshspTLgvw My acc is DanaLover
 
Why i wont stop replying? Because i won't stand back and listen how kids call me and and also IMMATURE. 
I supported my family financialy from 9 years old and still i am doing it. All i want is to listen to Kpop to clear my mind i DON'T have heart to listen how stupid i am for starting something! 
 
I'm so shocked on Youtube u can't post anything except ''I love you'' if u do say sth else, not even meaning hate u get Emotionally beaten up so much that u won't be able to handle. I am srsly considering taking it to REAL LIFE lawyer for malicious comments. I am just so done with my energy....I started with TVXQ and SUJU and those were my golden ages...Now, i see so much hate that i can't adapt.
They call idols ''oppa, hyung' but when someone older like me comes up i get and ....The saying is so right "You show your true colors when you speak to strangers''  
 
 
Please, share what u think about this and please if they are right in ur opinion state valid things with logic. 

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Nana101
#1
I just got told off by a "fellow" BABY because I pulled the Daehyun-Taehyung pops and son joke~
ozwalkr #2
Rules? Since when are there rules to WHAT YOU PERSONALLY LIKE? WTF? Are these morons or something? There ARE NO RULES to loving music or anything else. I say let the jerks be jerks. Say what you want and delete their stupidity. I am on YOUR side. I get weird comments and crap all the time, but I just let it roll off. There are more trolls out there than you can shake a stick at, some of whom do exactly what you describe just to stir up . Others are 10 yr olds who will hate on you if you say Barbie is plastic. I like to reply with...Thank you and have a nice day alone, cause no one wants to be with someone PMSing. For some odd reason, many of them cannot handle sass.
theweilaozu
#3
every fandom has immature fans. that's your opinion what's wrong with that? its so disappointing that even you belong in one fandom, they'll fight with you. like c'mon ppl lets just support our idol instead of fighting over my comment which is btw a form of expressing and practicing my freedom of expression.

that's why i just chose to just be a hailang and nothing else. im just tired with the bash and fanwar in my previous fandom. i just cant,not when they kept on bashing Tao or the other members. i dont want to be a hypocrite, i admit that i was disappointed that he left the group but it didnt crossed my mind to join them tweeting and making #taosonofa trend worldwide. never in a million years. you are not even in his shoes to judge him so easily. idc if im going to receive hate from this comment, i just want to express my pent up frustration.

its hard to ignore these kind of people. you cant control yourself not when you know you are on the right side.
Eternal_KPOP_Lover
#4
And thats why i didnt stuck w 1 fandom.. Coz all this fanwars are like ed up.. In my opinion, its not wrong.. U didnt do anything wrong.. All of these bashers is someone who din mature yet and they just get to know kpop for abt 2 or 3 yrs and they act like they know everything.. Like wtf? I thing THEY who should read the oh-so-called guideline.. Coz we were the one who they need to gv respect as someone who much more "senior" in this kpop world..

P/s : Im sorry for my language coz im my eng is bad xD
JungkookKookie
#5
You didn't do anything wrong in my opinion. Because people nowadays are younger and in their teen years, they tend to get (not sure if the right word but) possessive? of their idols. I actually look up to the older dedicated fans like you, you have more experience with stuff like this and know how to handle it (not that I'm saying that some younger fans can't but yeah). It's disrespectful to bash such people like you that just want to give their opinion on a song. LIKE COME ON! ITS JUST A SONG!! Anyone is entitled to have their own opinion for GODS SAKES. Don't let people who are on YouTube put you down for something that you wrote. They only have time to criticize people that they don't dean seem fit over a screen. Just ignore the immature fans obsessed with BEAST and just do your thing.
BTW I'm a fan of both groups too :)
anyavadar
#6
You didn't do anything wrong. It makes me angry to read this, the way they are treating you is terrible. I wish something could be done about it >< Don't let it get to you! You have the right to your own opinion and that one person said that it might not be terrible to you but to other people it is. No. It's not terrible either way you look at it. They are just too obsessed with Beast. (I love both groups by the way)
cornhob
#7
THIS IS WHY I QUIT BEING PART OF FANDOMS.
I just silently listen to my faves and comment on nothing because I know how immature the new KPOP fans are. I just don't want that .

And your every word was completely right. Just ignore their 14 years old immature asses.
MarianaCPenteado
#8
Sorry if there's any mistakes! English is not my first language! :))
MarianaCPenteado
#9
Try to not get so mad about it.. i know its hard and totally understand you! Sometimes people are just blind by this insane "love" for their idols.. and this is really immature. I don't know how old are you.. but i think that people that bash others on the internet because of their idols are just young and still pretty lost or just live this life, i mean doesn't know anything besides kpop... and eventually it gets really hard for them to keep sane and actually see outside the box. I know i'm being a little judgmental, but i really do think this childish and immature, and that frustration with life leads to talk without stop to think how insane our thoughts might be... But don't get to stressed about it... it's just your opinion that your trying to express.. and if you feel offended by non-argumented comments do report them... its not nice to bully people onthe internet, not to mention illegal! You know, hopefully they're going to grow up and all of this weird feelings are not going to bother them anymore.. they should feel really ashamed about their actions... and you just keep close to the nice not crazy fans.. there's lots of them as well! :)))) don't mind this people, they are really not worthy it! Actually, everytime i see something like this it reminds me of reply 1997.. its just a really good exemple how stupid we can be when we are young and how this is all gonna pass when we get older and how other things gets more important.. anyways it's a good recommendation for them to watch.. hahaha.. it would be really cool of there was a community were nice kpop fans can discuss freely about kpop.. I mean.. participate at community on facebook that is so cool, its about the sims but people are really nice and helpful, nobody bash, and if someone does its out! I do follow other yoga community on youtube and its the same thing, any rude comments that clearly has no sense or filter at all its out! It sounds harsh, but it works... Don't take it to the heart!! ❤❤❤
JonetsuDN
#10
I know how you feel I got bashed by a lot of EXO-L'S on facebook for stating my opinion... it ... I know.. but I can't really stop them either. It's their opinion against mine
And yeah they can call me , , stupid, ect. But I at least know who I am. Yeah I commented back and forth like you did but unlike youtube.. those EXO-L's started attacking my family telling my mom that she raised a stupid daughter and to my sister that if she had opinions like mine it's just best to kill ourselves? This Fandom war is bull because I support EXO just as much as the next EXO-L...
roselily_0812 #11
Well that's because they adore their idols too much that they can't see their flaws anymore. So when they see or hear a comment that is not praising their idols they would get defensive and they would think that your a hater an bash you calling you names and stuff.

Mostly these fans are the crazy immature ones that would beat any girl who their idols gets involved with because they are in this weird fantasy that their in a relationship with their bias.

In my opinion you can't call yourself a real fan unless you can see that these idols are just human beings that choose to live in the spotlight. They have their flaws and they make awful music but if you love them you'd stay with them no matter what. And thats what makes me stay a k-popper. Well that and kpop boys are hot!!!

Any who my advice is to just ignore them they'll soon grow out of that phase.
Ringo_Angel
#12
Wow... Some people really are childish. But don't take it to heart, if anything it's just bored kids.
I haven't listened to Butterfly by BTS or Beast, but it's always guaranteed that some songs will be better than others.

11 years? You go!!! I'm on about 8 or 9 xD I don't really know

You're entitled to your own opinion, don't forget that~ ^^ stay strong kid!