Just had the most traumatic experience......

So my family is close to another family, my mum is close to their mum and im friends with the older sister but there is also a younger brother, only a couple years younger than me.

Now for the past couple of years he has had depression and in the past few months he had had suicidal thoughts and attempts, i had only ever heard of them, as now we drifted a bit cuz of uni.

now!

about an hour ago i read a facebook post, posted by him basically shouting at the world and giving up... it was heart breaking to say at the least but then i noticed he was going to attempt suicide again!!

I told my mum as fast as possible and she rang his mum, luckily he is ok! his mum found him with a bag over his head!..

but the thought... that if i hadnt seen that post and hadnt warned them.. his post was only posted 15 minutes before i had read it!...

It was scary and i really want to help him and get him out of this hole he is living...

 

My main point is that if any of you are like this or on the verge of being this way, please think about what is making you miserable and change it!! just change it!

if its so called 'friends' then ditch them and find better people!

If its family then move out and live with a friend or there are places you can stay like hostels until you figure out a more perminant settlment!

if its where you live and the life youre living then LEAVE!! travel! experience the good side of the world!

please dont kill yourselves... this doesnt make things better...

 

*goes and cries for an hour*

 

okay.. vent over

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Evelyn-Everdeen
#1
I'm glad to know you were able to save him. You did great! <3

I really hope someone with those kinds of problems reads this. But I'm not sure if it'll be as easy as it sounds for everyone to walk away from the things that make them depressed. I've read once that depression doesn't really have to have /one/ reason, that sometimes you can't just point your finger at something and say 'that's making me depressed'. It's something you can't really grasp, that even the ones affected don't always know why they are depressed. But I do hope they will have the courage to talk about it. Maybe in a form like your neighbor did, maybe in a complete vent online or towards friends or family. I know when I'm feeling down, talking helps. I can't speak for someone with serious depressions, but I can hope that all of them will be strong enough to contact someone - whether that is a help agency, a friend, a family member, or just someone who will listen somewhere - and find help to get out of that state, to see and understand there's something worth living for.

And now please don't cry. You did great, Hannah! You saved a life and with this blog post you might be able to save even more lives. I'm not sure how many other people would have been able to react in time, to react in the right away. <3
sleepingprince
#2
I hope that he'l feel better soon . Encourgement is important. I think he need to see and feel that there is hope in life.