Am I a bad person?

I've met this guy two weeks ago at the party I wasn't supposed to be at, since I'm a lazy bum who just didn't want to go to the next town just for a party...I know, I'm lazy and antisocial, meh

And one of my friends invited couple of male friends, since it was a house party and the host needed as much people as possible (it's a long story)

So I got around talking to one of her friends, and he was so nice, and funny and we talked for about 5 hours straight, and even his buddies were like 'damn, what are you doing so long'

He got my number, and we've been talking ever since, every day, almost all the time

But now, after two weeks, I kinda got cold feet. We are not in the same town, so we couldn't see each other after that weekend but he promised to see me soon, since he has a job and I'm in college, so we can't just leave everything and go to each other.

He wants to be with me, and I really wanted to be with him, but now I don't know...

My friends told me to wait and decide after we get together and talk face to face, but I know he'll probably try to kiss me then, since he regrets it that he didn't kiss me the first night.

Just tell me what to do, since I don't want to hurt him, and I know that I get cold feet soon as someone who I like, likes me back...And I don't want to turn him down yet, since we could be something more than this, since we're so alike, with taste in movies, music and just general thinking...

Thank you for reading it to the end :)

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9394DOKAI #1
you're not a bad person, my friend...
and i'll say give this guy a go...though you guys may not be able to meet often...
it's hard to find someone you like, like you in return...grab him or you may regret it later...
BlackRosesTears #2
I would say, if it's possible meet again and see how it is going.
If he wants to kiss you but you are insecure you can talk about it with him. He should understand and take the fear.
It is normal to feel insecure, I am like that too but when you don't take a risk, you could regret it.
That is what I was thinking before I got together with my boyfriend^^
lalophobia #3
u should just wait it out a while. go see him on weekends if ur not busy. like that. don't specifically make the time if there is something going on, and don't think either of u have to drop everything to try and make something work. keep it casual for as long as needed, and if no one else comes along, and if things go relatively well, I'd say go for it. like, it's not really long distance if u can see each other once a week if u wanted to. if ya both wanna put labels on it at some point in the near future, that's cool. the distance shouldn't matter. like, tbh that might help u with the cold feet thing. cause u get to chat with him more than actually be beside him, so ur not rushing into anything and , yanno??? it might make u more comfortable to get to kno his personality more and then to see how it plays out irl when ya see him. just don't jump to conclusions now omg
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