There are times when I get irritated by things, this is one of them.

Person 1: I noticed that I am getting wrinkles under my eyes, maybe I should get some eye cream.

Person 2: Oh no you look pretty just the way you are, you don't need those creams.

Person 1: Oh, ok.

A few months later, Person 1 develops anxiety due to low self esteem.

Person 1: I really think that I should get my eye wrinkles treated.

Person 2: Oh no you look pretty just the way you are, you don't need any treatments.

While working, person 1 is approached by a co worker who says

co worker: You look extremely tired.

Person 1: what? but I feel energetic.

Co worker: Oh... well...

Person 1 consults person 2 again, but recieves the same responce

Person 2: Oh no you look pretty just the way you are.

This is a more toned down example of what I am trying to get to. If a person does not feel confortable in their own skin, telling them this statement will just irritate them, especially if their feelings are being mirrorred by the world around them.