Breakups..?

Hi...just wondering...did anyone suffer from a breakup before...? I did ard a month ago. It was horrible. My boyfriend told me he liked my close fren. And he migrated to overseas only recently, and would only come back once every 2 years or so

and if I didn't hear the rumors about him liking my fren, I would've still be in the dark. The horrible thing is that before he left I gave him a note abt how thankful I was and stuff...and he thanked me for the letter but then I realised he only did that bcos my best friend (guy) told him to make me happy before he left. He gave me false hope...and i cried many times...there's a guy who likes me but...I couldn't move on...what do I do?

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Szy_0208 #1
I know it's it will be hard for you right now. I know what it feels like honestly, because I've been through it or I helped someone with the situation. What I want to tell you is that it's okay to take your time to get over him. I know it won't be easy but please don't be like some people I know that moves on so quickly, but I know your not like that. False hope is really an ugly excuse to say good bye to someone especially when you loved them. I want you to focus on yourself more often, I want you to set new goals. I don't want you to be depressed and sad not doing anything because of a breakup. I want you to find you again and love what you do and who you are. Take time in yourself and when you are ready to settle down again do it. Also for the guy who likes you tell him that you need time to think and be yourself, if he understands he will leave you alone and wait or not wait . Find you, find a new passion, and find new friends. surround yourself with positive vibes. and most importantly just be you.
raebmonster #2
Jia huiii :'((( i have never dated anyone, so.. But i've seen many of my friends dating, and some of them broke up pretty badly. I haven't been in any relationship, so I don't know how should I comfort you.. But you can probably use the fact that your ex goes back to your country every 2 years to move on, like maybe you can start forgetting about him bit by bit..? I'm sorry, i'm not experienced at all ㅠㅠ
Ji-Hoo #3
some breakups are hard some are not as hard as others... but I think you should take all the time you need before you start anything new...
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