Ranting about my problem

Hey guys.. I've been thinking about this lately. It's about my family. My eldest sister to be more percise. Idk why but I think she has turns form bad to worse. If during high school days she always make my mom buy her new phone, now, my parents is supporting her financially for her wedding. I mean 100% financial support. And her reason is ridiculous! She says her money is with my parents?

Erm.. hello? The last time I check my dad always bank in her account and gives money when we visit her. Plus! Everytime and I mean it! EVERYTIME she want to go out she will asks for money around 100 dollars! If u ask me how old she is, she is 91-ers! Already graduate and already get her licence for working as a nurse.

She was the one who brag about getting a job when she failed her exam and now when she had got it she makes her legs as an excuse to not gwt a work. Wth? She also doesn't do housework AT ALL! SHE THINKS SHE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO IS SICK?

FOR GOD SAKE I'M SICK AS WELL AND IT'S SKIN PROBLEM! I CAN LOOK UGLY- SCRATCH THAT! MY LEGS ARE ALREADY LOOKS LIKE I'VE BEEN BEATEN BADLY AND NOW MY HANDS STILL HAVE SO SHINGLES LURKING AROUND! EVEN AT MY NECK! WHILE SHE CAN JUST GO TO SURGERY AND PHYSIO THERAPY TO GET IT FIX! OH DON'T FORGET THAT HER SURGERY IS ALSO BEEN FINACIALLY SUPPORT BY SURPRISE SURPRISE- MY PARENTS!

not only that.. my mother has a sickness regarding her heart. I'm so afraid one day she will leave us. My dad has asthma. But I'm thankful that they love me and my siblings so much. I'm so lucky to have them as my parents. But what my sister do?

She grunt when my mom asked her to clean the house up. Her excuse. "I'm not the one who do the mess so why should I clean it up?" For god sake, you are the only person at home you brat! Abah(my father) and mama have to work to supply us money! Show them some respect you !

I just wish that once she married her husband will change her to a better person. Please God. I pray for you to open her heart as well as mine. Please don't make me be like her. I know I have one of her trait which is talking back to my mom. And it's really upset me when I realised I had hurt my mama's feeling after I've done it.

Yeah.. I guess I should stop now.. I cried a bit typing this xD kay then just that :')

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pathless #1 Jan 11, 2016 05:08:38

aww i hope you're fine so does your fam , may god bless you < 3
well , i dont really face this kind of problem since im the eldest among my siblings and my only target was to get out from school and work my out to earn money for my fam to have a better living -- i hope your sis will soon realise how precious your fam is to her , sometimes marriage can really change her but i think she's really over the line , give it some time and have faith!

sleepingprince #2 Jan 11, 2016 04:54:54

I had some problem my elder brother. He always throw temper to my parents and me like everyday. Its crazy I tell You. Now all you can do is to study hard and find a proper job so u can help your parents out. You need be strong and always think positive so that you can be the pillar for your parents. Dont feel too sad about it, thou its really hurtful and sad to see them like that, the decision to change is in their hand . We cant really do much as well. Take good care and never give up .