Hi everyone how are you? I hope everyone is doing fine. 

Lately, there were lots of misunderstandings going on and in hopes of making myself clear and clean to many, I made this blog post. I am almost four years and a half in this fandom and four years in this ship but never once I intended to think ill of other shippers and never once had I made a move to make someone felt like they are being bullied. Four years and a half and why only now? Maybe because it is not my personality to do such thing.

This will be first and last time you will hear something like this from me. 

1) I did not remember myself wanting or telling someone to stop posting any blogs or pieces of information about Kyumin, Sungmin or Kyuhyun. Why would I even do that in very first place? 

2) I did not report any stories, accounts or such materials under Asianfanfictions that belong to any author here. Heck, I haven't mastered AFF yet, believe it or not. I sometimes reply to my own wall because I am that stupid, I sometimes even wonder why no one is commenting to me for three days but because I am stupid, I did not know I put my story to draft lol. Now, how can I even learn to report someone's stories? Also, I do not have any valid reason to do such thing nor even have the time to do it. I don't even have the ample time to write an update.

3) I am seongmin137 back then in year 2011. I am Kyuminempire both in Livejournal, AFF and tumblr. I am sweetsmirk137 in tumblr too. I am poilinimnida in Livejournal too. I transferred account and now I am using this account. My Livejournal is pretty much dead but someone is using it as of the moment (I am letting it borrowed by someone named malee). Kyuminempire in tumblr and AFF is not active as of 11/25/2015 but the one in AFF has never been active anyways. 

I have several accounts but the only one I am actively using is THIS account. Others are being used by other people. I even let THIS account borrowed by someone. I let IAMISHI know my password for THIS account. So anyone commenting in your stories that is not SWEETSMIRK is not me. It is up to you if you will believe or not. 

4) I am not after fame. If by all means I am after fame, I could befriend all those KM AUTHORS with good number of subscribers so they can promote my stories too right? Oh believe me, attention and fame can do such thing. Also, if by all means I am after name, I should have not transferred account foregoing my hundreds of subscribers resulting to a zero subscribers. Also, I will not abandon my tumblr which has 4k+++ followers, same with my Kyumin sideblog which has a considerable amount of people following it. Also, If by all means I am after fame, then I should not have deleted my twitter with a thousand follower and being followed by some Sungmin fanbases too. But right now, look at my twitter, I only have 57 followers and I don't care.

I am not threatened to any form of fame or crown that you are highly accusing me. If I am, you could have hated me four years and half ago because I am such a famewhore.

Friendly reminder:

Many of us, shippers, are not in this ship anymore. A lot are now only shippers by their heart but they cannot read Kyumin Stories anymore, some cannot even look at Sungmin's face, some are just plainly holding on. I love my readers so much especially those who constantly comment. I love them that I stalk them. I stalk them because I want to know how are they coping up but sadly what I see are just profiles whose last logged in dates are a year ago. 

It really pains me to see that they are not just ten people but a looottt of them. 

That is why I do not remember that I told someone to STOP posting any updates about Kyumin, Sungmin or Kyuhyun. But if there is one thing that I wanted to be clear is when you post a blog make sure you properly tag it. 

When you post a KYUMIN blog, tag it as KYUMIN BLOG. 

When you post a blog about the BANANA, tag BANANA. So if a kyumin shipper will know if she will open that or not or at least have an idea that it has something in it that she is not comfortable to see soooo... she can avoid.

Let us now face the truth: not everyone can look at Sungmin's face anymore like the way they used to be, NOT EVERYONE IS COMFORTABLE TO SEE THA BANANA FACE. So please please please tag accordingly. 

What you did: You posted a blog tagged as KM but when we opened it we only saw the banana face and a caption and comments bashing her, where is the Kyumin in that? 

I am not pro banana but if you are just going to post a pic of her then bash, better not do it. Let us live in the world where only Kyuhyun and Sungmin exist and only positive auras surrounding it. Let us use our time thinking only about them and if possible, post stories only about them. 

A FRIENDLY TIP:

When you blog, know your audience. What your audience wants to see and not so as you will know how to comply and what to compromise unless you blog for yourself not for them. 

Right now, the 'i-don't-care, if-they-don't-like-then-unfriend does not work anymore. Let us not be insensitive to the feelings of other shippers. Let us be harmonious. 

When someone correct your grammar, especially when it is your reader, accept it. It means they read or at least tried to read your work/s and is concerned with your grammar. Maybe they just wanted to help you and even wants your fic to stand-out. It happened to me. It happened to my friend. It happens to every author who has a reader. It is just a matter of how you look on it. They just want you to improve your fic so appreciate them. I applaud bomchii for answering one of her readers politely when one of her readers pointed out her grammar mistakes. It hurt her but in the end, it is a matter of seeing it as beneficial for your improvement as an 'author'.

Also, when you ask your readers to comment make sure that you drop comment to the stories you read too. Do not be a hyprocrite. It would be ironic when you ask people to drop a comment in your works when you also as a reader do not comment, right? 

Last, you had me namedropped in your blogs several times, posted a lot about me several times and subtly accuse of me several things but I did not answer you. I did not say anything, I let you do the talking. And now, I approached you and tried to converse to you but because I wasn't able to answer within ten minutes, you blocked me. You said I only have ten minutes to answer. WTAF?? I am a busy person. I cannot prioritize you over my job. That is the very reason why I don't have time to update, why I wasn't able to answer you immediately and etc etc.

I am a busy person. I have no bad intentions over someone. You are misunderstanding me.

Good day everyone.

Signing off,

sweetsmirk