I'm agree with CaptSunRiser. And I'm like boy too haha. My girl friends think that i'm so tomboy and my boy friends sometimes even treat me like their brother.. Hehe. But i know that I'm a woman. This is me, I'm just being my self. For me, being woman is not judge by appearance (like femine or have more facial expression) but it's about internal beauty that's show up from the way you talk, and act, how you treat others. Women are created to help men, to treat others with her love and kindness, and to cheer others up. but every woman has her own way to express it, so just be yourself.

You can be aggressive, manly and have a strong personality and still be a woman. Some guys like the more demure woman probably because they "need to be protected" or something like that. You being the way you are, men won't see that they need to protect you and will feel pushed out of what they believe is "their job" or "their position". By having this attitude, you are proving to some men that they aren't "needed" or that someone else can do their job, and these men tend to be really fragile and insecure. But you don't have to be soft, expressive and feminine to be a woman. To me, a real woman knows what she wants, will do what she needs to in order to get it, isn't afraid to speak her mind and is proud to be an individual, but still likes to be pampered for her own benefit. She knows she doesn't need a guy to provide for her and protect her and all of that, because she can do it herself if she chooses to. Some guys, however, see your attitude as a "threat" to their own standing in society because a guy that can't provide for his girlfriend or wife is somehow "not good enough". Which is all bull****. There's nothing to stop you from having this attitude. If anything, I'd say stay with it!