Gurl Talk 1

I think imma just start this blog thinhy on here about girls hehe. I have stuff that I need help with and I'm sure some of y'all have some too (not trynna be mean) 

 

So, I'm gonna start off with self-confidence. I have just a tiny bit. 

 

I remember my friend asked me if I loved myself and I smiled and said almost. She's a bit older and more mature so yeah lolz. 

 

Anyway she was happy with my answer and she got all exctied with me haha. 

 

But, I have a lot of flaws that I need to change. So, I thinl naminh them out and focusing on the major ones is a better thing to do.

 

My first and worst habit/flaw is being very anti-social. I don't start conversations with a stranger, nor do i make friends with a snap of fingers. I'm very shy and awkward and embarrassing. 

 

My second habit/flaw is one that I really want to start getting rid of is foul language. I cuss thousands of times a day and I don't like it. It makes me look trashy. But, it's how everyone is these days. I'm not saying, omg eww she says bad words ugh I'm never talking to her anymore. She's probably ghetto as hell... 

 

No, I don't mean it that way. I mean it in the way in which you don't look classy. So, thats something i really wanna change.

 

My third habit/flaw is that I'm very unorganized. In my room clothes, shoes, socks, underwear, anythinv possible is somewhere sprawled on the ground. I tend to lose a lot of important things like money in my room T_T 

 

And my last but not least habit/flaw is being lazy which kinda relates to being anti-social. I lay in bed with my headohones plugged into my phone and watch YouTube videos, listen to music, or be on AFF. 

 

I wanna go out more and do something while Im young. So, I'm joining my schools volleyball team. Hopefully that'll do me some good? Idk, it's still in the school realm. 

 

But yeah... that was Gurl Talk 1 and I wanna see if you guys like this type of stuff. If you're not comfortable sharing your thoughts in the comments you can send me a PM. I'll answer as quickly as possible c:

 

Hope you liked it hehe c; 

 

Bye Byeee~

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InvisibleSoul #1
Huh. Seems like you are my twin.
we have the same flaws.
look, anti social, I did start to get over it. I was somewhere and met new people, everyone around my age and at day1 I was crying and wanted to go back home and give up on the purpose I came there for but on the second day we really got to know each other and I even got to talk with some of them about my flaws and secrets which took me YEARS to speak about with my closest friends and we keep in touch until now.
i used to have this phobia from people. I was even scared to talk to waiters in restraunts. I think I'm making a progress.

About the looks, people tel me that I'm pretty and I should know that and acknowledge myself and I started to take care of myself wearing light make up to school, doing sports and all.. and it does make me feel better about myself. It also effects the being lazy issue..

Also about cursing all day long. I am just like that but I started to keep it to myself and only curse when I'm with my bestfriend lightly because hell it's for fun. But usually I'll say other things then cursing. You get used to it after a while.

Well that's all I can share rn.. I dunno if I got more to tell.. just believe in yourself and you'll change!!!
magicalkpop #2
I'm a gurl!!!! (=^•^=)
zoebyunnie #3
I'm lazy and unorganized too x) and I speak WAY too much even with people I don't really know I talk with them like we know each other for years -bcs of that I make a lot of people unconfortable...- :/
LeeRaeni #4
You're the same as me! I'm awkward, shy, and embarrassing all the time in school and its hard making friends sometimes. I usually let people start the conversations while I go along with it. I'm also lazy. I stay in my bedroom, listen to music, watch YouTube videos, or go on AFF. My life is pretty much boring and I hate it, but I can't help it. :P
EXO_Love_97 #5
I have always been bullied in my first ten years of school, from I was six until I was sixteen. When I turned sixteen I stood up for myself and on my last day of school I got into two physical fights and I felt so good for punching someone who has treated me like dirt for years. Since I was changing school and moving away from that horrible place I grew bold and told the rest of my class: "This is the last day of hell for me. I never liked any of you! Now that I'm free, you can all go to hell!"

They laughed at me and never took me seriously. Everyone was crying the last day of school, after being together for ten years. I didn't. Why would I cry? Once that day was over I never spoke to many of them again. After I moved away I became both prettier and more social. I started to go to parties and hang out with my new class mates. Now even my old classmates talks to me and if they doesn't I don't give a .

Where was I going with this...Oh right..Now I had a huge fight with my nearest friend in my new class and I figured I'm still very anti social, because suddenly I had no one to be with. We are in the same gang of friends, it's only that I am very submissive and if he is with them I can't do anything. We used to be together always...He is also the only one in our entire school that likes kpop and Korea as well. That's how we connected. Now I'm all alone and I don't know what to do.

I'm always lazy and unorganised...my room is a mess...for cursing; if I'm mad or frustrated it can happen or when my bias is being over the top y..than I'll curse like a crow <3
captivateinsgraphics #6
it's the same here it wasn't like this before I changed school:( when I was in my old school I get along with everyone very well. maybe because I'm the head of student prefects and I thought I would also be very socialble when I'm in my new sch but no the pple there are in cliques cuz like Im an addition in that new school and I found ity so hard to socialize with others! Huhuhu I feel bad. like I'm an outcast or smth
KpopLuver404 #7
Same!!! I'm a really shy and quiet person and I even got called anti-social because there is two reasons why I don't like talking. 1) I might not like you in the nice way and 2) I just don't talk for fun. But I have friends, but we got to different schools and such..... But I want to be a person like outgoing and things like that but it's hard for me to do so....
Creature #8
I thougt for a second that you were talking about me hahahahah
KimLMyungie #9
HAHAH same I was very lazy and very anti social until I realised that my life couldn't go anywhere if I continued. So I changed I mean on some occasions I'm still lazy but it was much better than before. And as an advice for the cussing SAME I was so used to cussing that one or twice I accidentally cussed at my teacher whoops but now I've changed and I stared using things that mean the same thing but sound a lot nicer to say out loud like fudge muffins or something (I'm corny I know heheh) but yeah that just something's I'm sorry if it sounded rude I'm just trying to help Mianhae ^_^
Blueflower740 #10
To be honest, I have some days where I wished I have more friends to go out and do stuff with, but some days, I would prefer to be by myself, so I guess its part of me being an introvert. When I'm around people, I wish I'm alone, but when I'm alone, I want to be around people, you know what I mean?

And I joined a new school half a year ago, I did ended up making friends, but not much close ones...My sister-in-law said I should join some club to meet new people, But I'm not really into sports -__-;

I don't really use foul language? I didn't start swearing until I was 15/16, but that was because someone pushed my limits and I just gave up being a nice person

As for my room, you can actually see the floor and walk around, and there is not much clothes out. My desk is messy, but that's how they're supposed to be. My parents complain to me that my room is messy, yet they have their clothes on the floor when I go in there -_-;
BellaBeau #11
I used to cuss a lot when I was younger, you grow out of it. Now I'm in my final year of high school and I rarely swear. Your vocabulary gets bigger as you get older and you have different words to use.
kenyattabat #12
i used to be like you, but once i join a club i started to open up more.
Ballerina_Belle #13
We are so similar except for the foul language..
cutemonkey97 #14
hahaha cool, we're so alike but i feel you though but i didnt care at all afterwards cuz ppl are different and it shouldnt matter what people think about~
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