Yours Always

06/19/2015

BrokenHeart asks:

Hi LoveAdvocate!

First, I love your blog! Your advice has saved so many relationships around me, and my friend recommended it to me when I needed some help. So as my name states, my heart…has been broken. My ex-boyfriend and I dated for a year and 7 months. He was always a lady’s man, and I already talked to him about it. But one day I kind of just snapped at him after I caught him hanging out with this girl. I guess all the pent up jealousy and frustration just came out all at once when this was the fifth girl that week. You can say it was a messy break up, but it is my fault. I didn’t trust him enough.

Now, how do I get over him? Every guy I meet, I feel like I’m not going to be the only one, you know? I feel like he’ll find someone else once I get boring or crazy. Should I apologize first? Thank you in advance!

Dear BrokenHeart,

Thank you for reading my blog! I’m glad it’s actually been of help to others!

Now, let’s get to the root of the problem. A relationship only works when both individuals are pulling their own weight. I think you’ve reflected enough