Fans Get Out of Hand

So a lot has been happening within a month. Luhan leaving exo (im actually sad about that cause he's my bias but you know get over it) Jessica no longer apart of GG which is and isnt a shocker on the situation with that I kinda understand the circumstances on both sides. And then poor Sungmin with his love life and now Tao. Im like  jeez SM cant catch a break lol. ive talked to a few kpop lovers which are my friends and me and my friend are on the same page that SM is feeling the karma. Umm as far as the negative comments go with luhan and sungmin. Its ridiculous to read comments about the idol being a traitor or hurtful or selfish or whatever bs they come up with. To be honest I kinda gave up reading more about the negatives :p.

 

Its not a shocker but more of a disappointment when fans get bent out of shape when an idol doesnt  for instance tell his her fans what happens and instead from hearing it from them they hear it from reporters etc. Well I guess for me I wouldnt care one way or another because I know its useless to get upset over something so minor. I guess what im saying is there are fans that take it too far and its stupid how the behavior is. We attack each other (embarrassing and childish) and we attack our idols that most of us was so called "deticated to" yet you would instantly turn your back on that idol or group. Im not saying its everyone which it isnt but those who go to far especially with older groups i unserstand you a fan you love them blah blah. But when you sit there and make rude comments over something you have no say so or control over it makes you look bad. 

 

BUT in a way I see many value the idols so much to your role model (im only guessing dont hold me to it lol) but its still no excuse for all the hate and nonsense. Im only saying this because on akp the fans can be vicious and harsh. But I do understand where they coming but at the same time its unnecessary and pointless. The sooner everyone realizes that the better it will be. How hard it is to support an idol or group regardless of the drama that happens. If your a true fan in time cry a river build a bridge and get over it. Everything happens for a reason whether we like it or not. this is just I would love to hear why everyone else is having such strong feelings about something that isnt that serious with any situation of any idol. Because in all honesty im not satisfied with anything because its all half answers.

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FullmetalTitan
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I don't read negative comments anymore to be honest. Those haters are not important in the slightest even though they may think they're comments are meaningful they really are hurting the artist they oh so claim to 'love' and 'respect'. If they really admired the person, they wouldn't be bashing or calling them hurtful things. The idols don't owe us anything. We don't own them. We are not their boyfriends/girlfriends whatever so how a fan could possibly feel 'betrayed' by them is beyond my comprehension.

They don't have to approve everything their bias does.

But show some damned respect at least. They need to stop whining and acting like selfish little brats.

And that's all I'll say on the matter.

Thank you for being yet another reasonable fan I've encountered :) I wish the good fans were seen more then the bad bunch.