Baekhyun is Dating Taeyeon, Not You (rant)
tl;dr — If you feel oh-so betrayed and disappointed and offended and insulted by Baekhyun and Taeyeon's relationship, so much so that you feel the need to call him names and hurt other people's feelings, then please kindly LEAVE THE FANDOM, for your sake and ours, and take your offended feelings with you, because no one needs your negativity and juvenile jealousy crap, and especially not Baekhyun nor Taeyeon. Just because you're offended doesn't mean you're right.
I have tried so hard not to write down my opinion about this because I don't think this is the type of thing that requires me to voice out my opinion, but seriously, guys? It's been like what, three or four days? And people are still talking about how betrayed they feel and how fake they think the relationship is and how they hope Baekhyun and Taeyeon break up soon, and all I can say is wow, how mature. Yeah, I know, everyone is allowed to feel however they want and say whatever they wanna say and deal with this in their own way. But when "fans" start calling Baekhyun a traitor on television broadcast, then you're no longer just "dealing with it you're own way". I don't want to be cliche and preach about how idols don't have to do anything we say and how they're human beings and can date whoever they want and it's not like they were gunna date you anyway, but apparently that stuff hasn't been pounded into some fans' heads yet. You have had three to four days to feel sappy and sad and betrayed, now get over it. Baekhyun is dating Taeyeon now, sorry, and if you're not mature enough to handle your "oppa" dating another girl (a girl that he really likes) and your coping method is to pick on the both of them and rail on and on about how deceptive he is, then I don't think you should be his fan. Baekhyun did nothing wrong. Maybe you think what they did was risky and misguided and you think he was sneaking around, but they did what they thought was necessary to keep their relationship going despite nasty, unsupportive fans who think they own them. Baekhyun doesn't even know you, ok? Neither does Taeyeon for that matter. And it makes me sick that she has to apologize on her Instagram for dating someone, Taeyeon is a grown- woman, okay? She can date whoever she wants, and you can hate all her all you want, but at the end of the day, she's dating your oppa, and you're not. Deal with it, and if you can't deal with it, then maybe you should find another fandom, one with less drama. It'll be much better for you to get away from the scandals and rumors, and Baekhyun will no longer have to deal with immature, juvenile fans who bring nothing to the table except negativity and trouble. Do you feel "hurt" by Baekhyun and Taeyeon's relationship? So much that you feel the need to hurt Baekhyun by calling him a traitor? Then I have a solution for you! Leave the fandom. It'll be better for all of us. God damn. I'm sorry. You feel betrayed because Taeyeon and Baekhyun went behind your backs instead of telling you the truth? Maybe it's because you're an immature kid and...
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