Kris' & Baekhyun's Incident

Okay so about a month plus ago or so, Kris filed a lawsuit against SM and went hiatus after that. As a Kris stan, I still support him a lot and I still wait for his updates on Weibo/Instagram.

Everyone has different views about this issue and yeah, I do have my own views too. As a hardcore fan of Kris, I will support him regardless of what decision he makes; whether he wants to leave or stay with EXO, though I'm more positive that he'll leave and has left long time ago already.

To me, Kris is the most important person in my life, aside from my family members. He's really different from all the biases I have, and if I were to list the reasons, I could go on for days. So basically, I believe in Kris. Many exostans bashed him; called him a traitor/betrayer/liar and whatever. Yeah, maybe he shouldn't have left without informing the rest, but then again, he was sick. If he continued working and practicing, his health would deteriorate. Personally to me, it really doesn't matter if EXO stays as OT12 or OT11, though I prefer 12 members together as one. 

I just want Kris to be happy, regardless of what decisions he make. After all, it's his life. We can't do anything about it even if he wants to leave. He had been pretending to be fine for a long time, and as his fan, the last thing I would want is for him to be sad, stressed and sick, because of his fans. He is a really strong person, the amount of hate he got on Instagram; it was pure nightmare for him. 

So really, if you are a Kris hater and you're still sending hates on his SNS, please rethink about your actions and see how much words could hurt. Imagine the whole world going against you. Oh and by the way, though he's 24 years old, but he has FEELINGS and hating on him on his SNS is counted as cyber-bullying. I was pretty affected when I got the news that he was leaving, because I know that I will definitely miss this dorky guy. I will definitely miss OT12, but if Kris is happier this way, then I'll be happy as well.

Also to add on, about the members unfollowing Kris on Instagram. Rumours were saying that the company confiscated EXO's phones and bla bla bla I'm sure you guys know. Firstly, all these are just rumours. Secondly, about EXO bullying Kris or whatnot, we can't judge because we only see things on the surface. Behind the cameras, we don't know if they really get along well or not. So again, what do we know? 

Following or not, it does not determine their friendship.

Again, many exostans made up so many rumours without real evidence, assuming that SM is responsible for everything. I'm not siding anyone, but why spread untrue rumours? How would it benefit to the situation? 

Moving on to the next part; Baekhyun.

The news about Baekhyun dating Taeyeon came out a few days ago, and many Baekhyun stans were broken over this. Baekhyun isn't my ultimate bias but he was once and he's still in my bias list. I know he made a promise about not getting a girlfriend till the age of 35, but he broke it. To me, yes he should've thought twice before saying things he didn't mean. But even if he really meant it, life is unpredictable, isn't it? 

When love comes knocking on the door, he couldn't ignore it because he has feelings too right? He is human and he needs love as well. I know many fans claim that they have feelings to, but imagine, if you could be with Baekhyun, but someone else had to separate you, wouldn't you be devastated as well? People claimed that Baekhyun lied and cheated his fans, hurt his fans and broke their hearts.

But, have you never hurt and lied to someone before? We are all human and we all make mistakes. Baekhyun just want to love someone, and reality is cruel. We all know that no matter he's single or attached, he would never notice a small fan in the crowd. I'm speaking about this from how I feel towards Kris. 

We are just their fans, we need to accept the fact that even if they do not have girlfriends, our chances with them are slimmer than anything else in this world. Fans have been bashing Baekhyun and Taeyeon on Instagram. To you, you may think that it's just a small comment and with just one scroll, they would miss it. But no. If hundreds and thousands of 'small' comments flood their comment box, they would see it and they would feel hurt. 

I am not defending Baekhyun, neither am I saying that he's in the wrong. Like I said, everyone has different opinions and perspectives, we all need to learn that we all make mistakes and no one is perfect in this world. 

Whether exostans leave or stay with EXO, it's their choice. I don't understand fans who judge other fans saying they aren't true fans or what not. It's not up to them to judge because everyone is different. Most of us are hurt by this matter, and I just hope that all of us can pull through this together as one. Hwaiting~!

 

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neeh123
#1
Well said. I think that they should get to choose what they can do while they still can. They shouldn't have us, fans to tell them what to do.
BellaSpeechless
#2
What were you saying were all true. We can't quickly bashed them because we actually don't know what's going on between them. Lately, EXO had many hard time. We as their fans, must support them no matter what. I hope that all the EXO's member get a happy life and become stronger than ever. We are ONE! EXO, saranghaja! ^^
Fanfan_Galaxy94
#3
I'm with you :') I'm also Kris stan and he's the one that made me fall in love with EXO.
Regarding Baekhyun's case, yeah... I agree with you...