Why JYJ and not HoMin.
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This is awesome input on the whole case, and actually, I do not know who to believe. But I do know they all wanted to leave. Only Changmin and Yunho couldn't. They wanted to, but they couldn't, for whatever reasons. Yunho once said that they wanted JYJ to return. They obviously was kept in the dark about this, so I presume that JYJ knew that Yunho and Changmin couldn't leave, so they didn't say anything. But whatever. I know they'll reunite.
I think it was heavily hinted by various things that all the five of them harbored a secret hate toward the company and thought about doing something to claim their rights, ( Sue the company, specifically, and threaten to leave it if they didn't obtain what they wanted )
All the five of them wanted to do it, but in the end, only three of them actually went all the way, while the other two didn't ( Because of personal moral values and thier family's heavy pshychological influences )
The departure was a thought that blossomed among the five of them but carried out only by the ones who have actually been able to transform it into reality.
In a way it only seems logical that the split happened the way it did, if you look at their childhoods.
You know that personality is formed in the very first years of your life right ?
Yunho and Changmin have been raised by very strict families and both of them have been taught since very little to "obey" the authority and show a fearful respect .
Something which didn't happen to the other three .
Jaejoong was the super wanted and super spoiled only male in a family of 8 sisters , his parents went to the extent to adopt to have a male in the family who in the end, the little boy they took, turned out to be the beautiful Jaejoong. You can immagine how much they spoiled such a treasure.
In baby Jaejoong's brain was sure imprinted the conviction "You are special and you are worthy to be treated like a prince, so no one should ever step on you."
Junsu's lovable and innocent personality doesn't come from nowhere, have you seen his parents? He's pratically the son of snowwhite and a giant teletubby. Even his house looks like a fairytale's house.
He was loved in every possible way and has a twin that loves him like himself.
In baby Junsu's brain was probably imprinted the conviction "Don't have any fears, whatever you do, we will support you."
Yoochun comes from a family in which untying bonds is "the norm".
His mother has ran away from her rich parents to live her life, and later on divorced from Yoochun's father too when she was having difficulties.
In Yoochun's brain there easily is imprinted the conviction "If you don't like the situation you are in, run away from it."
Yunho and Changmin had no such luck they have been taught to obey to the authority and do what it is that has to be done.
Rebellious behaviours were probably severly punished and condoned in such families so in their minds instead there is the conviction "If you don't obey, you will suffer and obtain nothing except people getting disappointed in you."
So no one has really initiated the leave, this is what it was, the way they were raised.
The way they were taught to react in front of difficutlies has made the choice of who was to remain and who was to stay .
JYJ left because Jaejoong feels too special to be stepped on, because Junsu knows he will still be supported and cared no matter what's his choice and because Yoochun thinks that escaping is the way to solve unwanted situations, while Homin stayed because in their minds, rebellious attitudes only bring pain.
Of course I could be wrong on all of this, but I seriously think that the way they were raised is the reason of the split.
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