My thoughts about Kris' whatchamacallit

 

 

This is just my thoughts because there are yet still so many delusional fans.

Don't get me wrong, if any of you know me, I'm a huge EXO fan I literally lived for them. This made me really really sad (I cried okay this is embarrassing but meh), but please, we all need to bury any delusional OT12 dreams, it's never gonna happen anymore.

 

 

Why?

 

1. KRIS was the one who filed a lawsuit, meaning HE was the one who WANTED to leave. If he wasn't planning on leaving, he would never filed a lawsuit. Just think of it logically. Many fans said he's just asking for a humane amount of work and not necessarily terminating his contract, that is a ridiculous thought because 1) If he really did not want to terminate his contract, official conversation is perfectly fine to be done internally within SM, there are no need to go through a court; 2) Korean news already confirmed he wanted to "terminate his contract", it's crystal clear.

2. Do you really think after all that happened, IF he actually came back, the rest of EXO would be all "Oh hey hyung, welcome back!" and cried and hugged him? It would be so ing awkward, think about it. They had concerts coming in a few days, I'm sure they had been practicing for MONTHS or rushed weeks but I'm pretty sure they didn't even had decent sleep, but then he came out of the blue wanting to terminate his contract. Out of the blue, yes, because the rest of the members seemed like they had no idea about it at all. He ed up real big because arranging their dance stances in one song even though they only lost ONE member is a pain in the (I'm sure if you're a dancer and you've been in a performing group, you'd understand). As harsh as it sounds, yes, Kris betrayed the rest of EXO. If I'm an EXO member, I would forgive him as a friend, but never as an EXO member. That is a fact that is right in front of your eyes, don't focus it somewhere else and make excuses, it doesn't work that way.

3. He underwent his training for years, it's impossible he wouldn't know how being an idol in SM works. And besides, why is he the only one complaining? Why is the rest not saying anything, especially the rest of China line, especially Tao who is rumored to have been bullied the most during training? Kris could've left the first time he went on sudden hiatus, but no, he came back. He gave us another hope. But he'd given it all up now, let's not act like too desperately.

4. You asking for OT12 to happen again itself is a selfish act. Kris decided to leave, the company decided to keep OT11, OT11 already confirmed at the concert from now on is their "beginning"; do you think it's okay for you, for us, who's practically no one (don't go "we're their fans!" on me now, you will make yourself look stupid) to ask them to reconcile because of YOUR OT12 delusion? No.

 

The chances of Kris coming back and not coming back is both unconfirmed, I know you'd say that. But let's seriously think with our brains and not our broken heart, okay? No one had said anything confirming, but all the facts already spoke for itself. Kris is no longer calling himself Kris but instead Wu Yi Fan. SM already put down all of his pictures, promo tools, posters, they even bring him down from the official site. If that's not a fact enough, WHAT IS? Do you really think they would do that if nothing is confirmed? No, because I'm sure SM had already decided on something, they just choose not to reveal it to us. It's so obvious man, why do people keep missing it.

 

I'm definitely NOT and will NEVER be hating on Kris. I'm just part of those fans who will never appreciate him for choosing to do it in such a crucial time. We're the fans, we're here to support. We don't have the right to question or demand anything from them because that's their choice. I questioned the "We are one" too at the beginning, what about it, what happened to it, isn't it supposed to be OT12's slogan.

 

I got the answer when I sat down thinking about it thoroughly. As a fan, I will always support EXO. They began as 12, but they were reduced as 11. Are they no longer EXO? No, because no one had ever said EXO ALWAYS HAVE to be 12 to be called EXO. I will accept just that, and support no matter how many members they are left with, because for me, "We are one" is EXO's slogan. Not just OT12's. 

 

 
 

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shining_writer #1
Yep, I agree with you. I'm a dancer in a performing group and it was a pain when the leader of my team decided to leave suddenly. Not to mention that my instructor had good relations with him even before they set up a studio.

Kris is/was in SM, he knew how SM works, he knows how tedious it is to prepare for a concert, hence I didn't like that he chose to leave at this time, regardless of any reason. Yes, I am a performer. Technically, Kris can be sued for ditching his concert preparations/performances or at least be liable to damages/pay compensation. If he had health reasons, he could talk to SME.

EXO wouldn't be the same even if Kris returned. And when Kris did something like that, he would have been prepared to leave and not go back. Good luck to him in whatever he decides to do. But I don't think that I can view him as a role model. I have always thought of EXO as role models, never idols. The fact that they worked so hard for something they are passionate about motivates me to be a better performer.
Milayka
#2
Oh and as far as I'm concerned. Kris was only taken out of the CONCERT promos. As in their poster, concert merch. HOWEVER, he is still in their official site: http://exo-m.smtown.com/
Milayka
#3
Just so you know, Kris actually make the lawsuit due to his health and that alone. he HAD to put the rest of the things (the bad salary, the mistreating) because only THAT way he could terminate his contract. I am sure he KNEW what he was gettin himself into. He had been keeping it for a while now, this decease and apparently it took a toll on him. He didn't want to leave but he HAD to and the only way to leave SM is either you terminate their sick 13 years contract or pay like DOUBLE the amount of money they waste on you.

Yes, Kris did it in the baddest of time but knowing how a concert can take a toll on someone's sick body, especially with all those dance moves, he had to do it BEFORE it even started....it was a hurtful choice in the baddest of times but sadly...he had to do it at that time. I'll always support him. OT11 and Kris or whatever SM or Kris decides to do cause we can talk and hope and but WE DON'T KNOW WHAT WILL REALLY HAPPEN. So far the decision is OT11 and Kris is in China getting treatment, that's as much as everyone knows.

But yeah, like I said before...you have you opinion and I respect it. I have mine and I hope you respect it to. I am NOT being delusional and I am certainly not saying he will come back back but I can't say that he isn't coming back. Life is unpredictable. /shrugs meh.

Peace! x) ♥
--eryx
#4
FINALLY!!! CAN I JUST LOVE YOU? I GET SO PISSED BY THOSE WHO KEEP PUSHING OT12, IT HURTS BUT SERIOUSLY HAVEN'T THEY HEARD ABOUT "MOVING ON"? JUST BECAUSE HE LEFT DOESN'T MEAN YOU CAN'T SUPPORT HIM ANYMORE, AND JUST BECAUSE HE LEFT DOESN'T MEAN EXO CAN'T PERFORM AS WELL AS BEFORE! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING SO RATIONAL!!!!
kintoun
#5
gamsa for voicing out my thoughts ;;;;
ive always thought that the fans are being too mean to sm
i mean spreading rumours about slapping and violence by sm staffs
and hearing shouts from the sm building like wtf ijcsndsijncr
(( i cant even get over the fact that they believe those rumours i mean
exo members could file a lawsuit for violence if that happens like who would want that ))