I kind of wanted to stay quiet and not make any comments about Kris until...forever actually

Bbbbbbut, I have a friend that lives in Canada that recently got in a whole big argument with some other girl about the Kris incident and I felt the need to just write out my thoughts. 

I support Kris, and I respect the people that support Kris also. But some people need to understand exactly what supporting Kris is.

And some people also need to understand that Kris is leaving, terminating his contract, making changes to his contract, whatever the case is, because HE wants to. He made these choices. Kris also decided to make this change before Exo's very first concert, which you cannot lie and say was not irresponsible of him on his part, cause guys...he wasn't just a member, he was the leader. 

All the fans that are bringing up his heart condition as a reason; I support Kris but I am almost positive that the heart problem isn't true or not as big of a problem than it was made out to sound. If his heart condition were true, SM would be in A LOT of trouble and this whole deal would be a whole bigger deal than it already is.  But we still do not know if it is true, nothing can be for sure yet. 

A lot fans want Kris to come back to Exo. But that is literally impossible. When I say I support Kris, I support him leaving the group and following what he wants to do. Kris's heart has already left Exo, if it hadn't, he wouldn't be doing the things he is right now. And honestly, I don't have the heart to watch him forcefully end up back in Exo just because of the fans/media/SM. 

PEOPLE THAT ARE BASHING ON HEECHUL, I would like to ask...when was Heechul ever afraid to speak the truth. He spoke his mind about the situation, and as a person that had to once go through it too, having Hangeng leave Super Junior and such. Some people might think he had no right to say such words, but I believed that he was in every position to. 

ONCE AGAIN, I support Kris. I support him leaving the group. I support Exo. I support that they might be hurt and sad. I support both sides, but I'm not going to DEFEND Kris. Why? Because I believe that Kris isn't dumb. He would have thorougly thought this through, thought out the process of this, and then let the idea pass. He should have already thought of all the he was going to get. He should have thought of how Exo was going to act/feel about him deciding to just not show up in Korea and announce that he was going to nulify his contract with SM without consulting any of s. 

I understand that it pains you, makes you mad, that Kris is getting and all that...but let's be honest here. You can't say you wouldn't feel hurt and sad if you just found out that your leader, the leader that you looked up to, the one that made you made beautiful promises with, one day just decided to leave you and all the dreams behind without telling you anything. That hurts. Again, yes it could have been because of his health, but if the health issue were to be completely true than I believe the situation would have been dealt with in many different ways. BUT if it were true, Kris STILL shouldn't have dealt with this issue the way he did. And I respect his decision but Kris himself also deserves some of the harsh words. 

As for Exo...

I don't call myself an Exo fan, but I like all the members in their own individual way. I am going to admit that Kris leaving Exo didn't have that big of a effect on me than it must have had on a lot of other girls but I can relate to it. Because waking up one day and hearing that G-dragon wasn't going to be in Big Bang anymore or that CL decided that she wasn't going to show up to any of her schedules with 2ne1 would make me extremely sad. I do not know what exactly goes on behind closed doors, but I do know a little bit about SM. SM isn't a VERY nice entertainment company. They aren't very flexible with their artist's needs and being Korean myself I myself know how some Korean people can be around foreigners. And when I first heard of Exo having 12 members, and some being Chinese, I knew it wasn't going to be smooth sailing. From time to time, when I hear about bullying with the chinese trainees and the korean trainees, I 100% believe it, because I know how Korean people/kids can be...even more because my grandfather was Chinese himself. And so I understand that idol life, trainee life, could've been bad for Kris, Lay, Luhan, and Tao, and I understand that it could've had a big role to play on Kris leaving but I also do know that the korean members do love their chinese members. And I think we can sympathize for them. 

But I would also like to tellt he Exo fans and Kris Stans. Kris isn't gone. He isn't going off to die. I understand that this could sound super insensitive but if you truly support Kris, I think we should learn to see it on both sides.