Someone please help me! I have boy problems, I think I am going insane.

Okay heres the story, theres this guy he is one of my closest friends ever since elementary school. I haven't talked to him ever since we entered high school, since he went to a different high school. But last weekend, I found  his yearbook picture In my cousin's yearbook since they both went to the same school together. So as soon as I saw his picture, I Immediately screamed with happiness and decided to text him his yearbook picture. However, I totally forgot that he moved to California (He was living in Texas btw) so I forgot that his number probably changed, but I was too excited to remember so I texted the picture to his old number, who knows who the owner of the number now. But in the end, I ended up getting cursed out because I couldn't process that the fact that is wasn't his number anymore. * I don't know what was wrong with me. lol

BUT

I decided to send his picture through Facebook Messenger, but turns out that he had his number on his facebook, so I decided to text him. Then after that we couldn't stop talking. Everytime I'd be texting him, he would text me back immediately. I was so happy that I was talking to him, I felt nervous and butterflies were inside my stomach. I seriously couldn't stop smiling. Lol, don't judge me. He also said I was pretty because I sent him a picture of me walking somewhere. So while we were texting each other, we some how started flirting with each other. It was to the point where he wanted me to say "I love him more than my dog."  I don't know, he's stange. Lol

There was this one text where I asked him if he was playing hard to get, and he replied back saying, " How am I play hard to get when I don't even know if your single." Then more texting goes on, lets just say that we were FLIRTING. 

But what the problem is, I been thinking about him ALL FREAKING day and all weekend. I been constantly checking my phone if he texted me or not. It's been driving me NUTS! For the passed two days, I been the first one to text him. But everytime I text him he would reply to me immediately. What does that even mean? You won't ever text me first but, every time I text you would reply to me within a blink of an eye.  He also mentioned that I was his "special" person, and I asked him what does that suppose to mean? and he replies back to me saying "idk--"

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REALLY.

Am I just thinking about this too much? Does he have interest in me? I am so

confused, and going insane to the point where I want to pull my hair out.

I asked my friends for there opinions, but they been giving me complete different answers. One of them said, don't text him first because he will think that you fell completely over him, and he has all the control. Then my other friend said, including a guy said, just text him, maybe hes waiting for you to text him first, since you haven't texted him.

Ugh, I don't know guys.

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME.

PLEASEEEEEE.

 

 

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stilinsking
#1
you guys are cute omg x)
but yes, i cant agree more to your friend's first opinion, i think you should decrease the frequent to text him first :) not totally stopping it, though. texting first is showing that you want to talk to him, right?
but who knows he is playing with you bcs he knew you are all over him~
but then, dont overthink the fact that he's replying ur text immediately :)
--minyoungiie #2
were in the same situation -,-' .
i kinda dunno whut to do .
GRANDJIMIN
#3
Ahhhhh okay I see what's going on here. Tbh, there's nothing wrong with texting a person first. It shows that you have interest in them and that you WANT to talk to them. Nothing wrong with that. But to me, I don't think you should overthink the the whole he-texts-me-back-immediately cuz it's really just that. You don't know what that really means to him. So you don't wanna jump the gun into thinking something different. Like when my friend texts me and I text back fast, he thought it differently when really I just always had my phone in my hand lol. But overall, I think you guys should just keep talking. It won't hurt anyone. Since he does live somewhere else, I understand that being skeptical is normal. So just keep talking, but don't overthink everything cuz you never know if it's a mutual feeling. I say just roll with the punches, let time do the work and just be natural with everything. Good luck, deary!