So my friend F, if you didn't read my last last blog he is the friend who knows what I'm going through but shouldn't be focusing on me and on his girlfriend, is going through some  

 

With his girlfriend

 

who I'm friends with 

 

 

okay so friend F is texting me, he wants to help me through all this but he is sounding more and more like a self improvement novel so I kind of flipped on him and shoved him away like a few weeks ago

 

so today i decided to apologize and check in on him to find out he and his girlfriend are fighting 

 

Friend F girlfriend has signs of a cancer tat was supposed to be gone when she was little. But it's back followed by heart problems 

 

she won't tell friend F

 

why?

 

because as much as she loves him, she doesn't want to put him through it all. Her going in for testing and whatever 

 

she pushes him awaway

 

friend f hates, like really hates, the silent treatment 

 

so I'm stuck in the middle, with him freaking out and being all paranoid and her all confused 

 

Because she wants to stay with him but she thinks she cant. She wants space and time

 

he is thinking its all his fault, and she is going to end it all and is increasingly paranoid

i can't tell him that I know what's wrong because I promised her I wouldn't

 

WHAT DO I DO?!

 

Oh, let's just say friend F and I had a brief brief brief relationship, he still slightly cares for me despite his relationship. Oh, and she has no clue we dated

 

so frustrated