Forgive & Remember... or Forget???

Forgiveness is easy to be given but not to forget...

But if we say we had forgive the person but not to forget the mistake didn't it seem like actually we still didn't fully give forgiveness. The scar still left in our heart; even might be we can't openly or warmly greeted them in the future...

Didn't also it's like we have some grudge against them. The pain still exist since it's didn't fully heal. We may feels sad and totally not achieve the happiness...

But, we are just a human; a normal person and not even a noble person.. To easily forget is something is hard to be done. 

But how come we achieve the happiness back???
 

Thus, now I will forgive and still remember... Forgive the mistake and remember the happiness that they had given also the mistake but not as grudge instead for experience in the future. So that I'll gain back my happiness because everyone make mistake so do I...

Or might be also I can totally forget the person... The happiness and mistake so that I can achieve the happiness soonest...


So, which one should I do... To forgive and remember or to forget???

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racheose
#1
I am bad at this stuff because there was some people I cannot forgive even if I already forgot what they did... hoping all would be well for you though >.<
nihongo3
#2
Its depends on u actually. Which one give u more strenght to face out world in future? I believe in u cinguu