i need. advice.

so today after school some guy confessed to me and shiz. we were like okay friends. i kinda rejected him, since i didnt rlly want to date. but then i kept on thinking about it. and i think im having like a mental breakdown. im going crazy. like. the guy. is kinda annoying and stuff, and etc. and also like it was just so sudden and im alrdy rlly busy, and this is just a huge distraction. why did he have to do that? god. imma kill him. anyways. so i got my boyfriend janus album, hitomi no melody, and poster! and i was like super excited. but then when i opened everything, for some reason i wasnt like spazzing out. so im just like. why. i feel like crying now... ugh. plz help! do i like him? i just want to ignore him for like the rest of my life. hes just ruining everything! i hate him!

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CaratCake #1 May 25, 2013 18:12:20

Now I see what you meant yesterday. But you can't give up in Donghyun. Just maybe take some time to really think about it. Maybe talk to him more? I am not good with advice....

Rosechan #2 May 24, 2013 23:11:20

You should give it some time. I'll say this... I've opened KPOP CDs completely excited before, and I've opened things not excited before. I don't think you should immediately blame it on your feelings for the boy.

In fact, the only fair way to evaluate the boy is by evaluating only him. For example, do you feel badly because you MIGHT want to date him? Or do you feel bad because you rejected him harshly. Are you upset because you don't ever want to date him and this is weird? Or are you upset because you're busy now and don't have the time to date properly.

Once you figure out how you feel about him (and this can take time) then you can decide how to go about the whole thing. And don't forget, we're always here to help <3

GimmiKpopPwEz #3 May 24, 2013 22:28:28

Just forget! I felt the same way when I was tired on shinee's comeback, and I wasn't FREAKING OUT when I saw the MV, but that's just that "BLAH" faze us fangirls go through sometimes...so yea! Just chill, soon you'll be flailing and squeeling like normal..(?) oh and don't hate him. He just had feelings for u. It's k. Don't sweat

KatingaTrouble #4 May 24, 2013 22:26:08

I don't actually know much about relationships but you did call him 'annoying'. I say dont ever date someone you dont really like. it just wont work. If you dont like him very much then dont worry :) You did the right thing.