Who's to say what beauty really is? Each person has their own opinion, and though some have similarities there are not any that are 100% identical. I know it would make sense to use the general similarities through out society as guidelines for beauty, but why can't it be based off of the way the general public actually looks instead of on how they /wish/ they looked?

This seems to be a controversial and somewhat hypocritical topic considering we like to believe that we can achieve our dreams...

I know that how we depict beauty is how we all wish we looked, and that some women "dream" of looking that way...

but the reality of the matter is that the majority of them never will. That isn't necessarily a bad thing either. Some women just dont have the right bone structure or body type or even the grace required.

Take me for example. I am a klutz. I trip over everything...and sometimes even nothing at all. I run into doors, my skin breaks out when I drink dark sodas, and I'm...somewhat pudgy .-.

I feel that everyone is beautiful in their own way, no matter how cliche that sounds I really mean it. If you look carefully, you will find at least ONE thing about each and every person...that is beautiful. Their hair, their makeup, their smile, their laugh, their eyes, their personality...the little things that make them who they are.

I'm tired of the hate...I'm tired of people feeling the need to put others down to feel better about themselves...

Prejudice, racism, hate...why can't we just let all of that go? I don't understand...

JUST BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE DIFFERENT FROM YOU ON THE OUTSIDE DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD HATE THEM.

Our insides are similar....so even if you are from the opposite side of the world, and you meet someone you have "absolutely nothing in common with"...look again. You're both made of muscle, blood, bone...you both are breathing....you both have things that you love, even if they're different.

I LOVE THE KPOP FANDOM BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE WE ARE CLOSER THAN SOME ACTUAL FAMILIES...including my own...

I just don't understand why we can't stick together...we are always getting bombarded by hate from non kpoppers, beliebers, directioners, and others...and yet we continue to have fanwars within the kpop kingdom....it makes no sense...We should stand united or we'll be divided...we can't let them tear us apart from the inside!