So far I've been in college for 2 weeks now and it's going alright. I got some grades in and they're looking amazing :') 

I live in a studio room with two other girls and it has its pros and cons. They're really nice and fun but it gets lonely sometimes. They're so opposite of me so I'm left behind while they go with their friends to parties or regular hang outs. we talk and share a lot when we're together in the same room. One roommate, let's call her May, is having so many struggles with her life. Not just college life but her own personal life such as her long distance relationship. You see, we are attending a college that is hours away from our homes so it's hard to travel back and forth. Her boyfriend is such a possessive . Literally, he spams her phone so much and when she doesn't respond he just spams it more and then the arguments start and the yelling increases and May is left in tears and stressed out because of him. It's just seeing her break down day after day just for this . I listened to their calls and it's BAD. He has no respect for her and she tries to get that respect but he only blames everything on her! I hate it so much because I used to be in a Long-Distance relationship and it because my ex was controlling as hell. We also got into arguments about small petty . I just couldn't with the lies and then the cheating started because I didn't want to advance our limits. The fault was always on me and it felt so depressing and humiliating. I was together with this person for 2 years and those were the worst years in my life. seeing May in the same situation just hurts me because no one deserves that. I thought I could go with the lies but we were born to be respected and loved. I just understand how May feels about her boyfriend but she should not let this control her like that.

There's a bright side to her situation though, there's a guy, lets call him Tim, who is so sweet and caring towards her. He's polite and respectful, he knows May has a boyfriend so he keeps his distance and respects her limits. She leans on him so much and it just warms my heart. There's conflict though because it's technically "cheating" but the thing is that he did so much worse to her, he had cheated on so many levels. I support her decisions to be with Tim when she's here at the dorms. It's so cute though, they make the perfect couple and she deserves someone like him. I just hope she resolves this issue soon because we all need love from the heart.