! your double standards !

 First, for all those who keep on insisting that their faves had it harder:

All groups have gone through intense training during predebut to become what they are now. Regardless of agency or company, all groups have the same thing going on in their lives and that is 'training to debut.' They all had sleepless nights, dieting days, vocal and ance training day and night. So could people stop saying that a certain group had it harder because they were from a small company? Just think about it. Trainees the big three companies also did everything your precious oppas went through. Some auditioned, some were recruited but not all succeeded in being picked for debut and some are still in the process of training even having been there for many years (e.g. Johnny of NCT but thank the gods he finally debuted).

Second, for all those that are saying that a certain group is better than another and shoves it the entire ing world:

If you're saying that your bias is great and whatnot, then fine. Good for you. But if you keep on insisting your opinion to others and keep on saying that they are wrong, then you're the problem. You're one of the biggest problem in the KPOP fandom these days. Sure, you're bias group is great. But hello? ALL GROUPS ARE GREAT IN THEIR OWN WAYS. You might not appreciate them or their music but others do. Some pour their heart and support onto them so you have no ing right to crush their love for their beloved bias group. WE GET THAT YOU LOVE YOUR BIAS GROUP AND YOU THINK THEY'RE GREAT. YOU CAN SHOUT THAT OUT TO THE WORLD WITHOUT BRINGING OTHER GROUPS DOWN. Just spread love and appreciate all the groups out there that worked hard for wha they have now. Some may be perfectly ready to be on stage, and some might still need to improve. SO GIVE THEM A CHANCE FIRST. DON'T BRING THEM DOWN WHEN SOME HAVEN'T EVEN ACCOMPLISHED THAT MUCH YET.

Third, for all those criticizing girl groups for their concepts:

GIRL GROUPS. I don't understand why some (or most boy group stans) give girl groups so much hate when they themselves are girls (female, woman, yeoja)? BREAKING NEWS: Girl groups trained just as hard as your oppas. Girl groups perform on the same stage as your oppas. See that? So why give them so much hate? Plus, don't you think girl groups go the extra mile? 

• They perform even though they are on their period
• They dance in heels (AND DON'T GIVE ME THAT THAT THEIR CHOREOGRAPHY IS SOOOOO MUCH EASIER THAN YOUR OPPAS BC THAT AIN'T TRUE.Walking in heels is such a hard thing to do for most women and these girl groups ing dance in them. *and teen top too hehe)

Another issue here is why do people criticize girl group concepts so much? If a group does a cute concept (e.g. APink, Lovelyz) you say that it's all recycled, it's too cutesy, it's annoying, "Why don't they change their concepts? It's just the same from all their other songs!" and if they do change their concpet to something Hip-Hop, you say they're copying 2NE1 or 4Minute (e.g. BlackPink, CLC). If they do y, you call them s, , es. Like wtf, fam? YOUR DOUBLE STANDARDS ARE SO TOXIC. Girl groups can't even do different concepts without getting hated on. What do you want them to do? Even just in their costumes (?) they get hated on (well, all women generally). "It's too short." "She only wears that for attention." And if they cover up, you still complain.

Concepts done by girl groups, in my opinion are diverse. Girl groups are flexible in the concepts that they do. While some boy groups, just do the same thing over and over again. (This is not to hate on boy groups bc I'm a stan myself, just what I noticed.) They do the exact same thing and people argue that it's their "Style." So girl groups are annoying when they do the same thing, but boy groups can because it's their own style?

THIS IS WHY THE KPOP FANDOM IS NOW A MESS.

THE DOUBLE STANDARDS ARE STOPPING PEOPLE FROM APPRECIATING KPOP GROUPS.